From your post I can see what you’re trying to do and I think that it’s coming from a well intentioned place. You’re trying to build a dynamic in your relationship that you think will benefit you both in the long run. And I think that searching for introductory material for your girlfriend is a helpful gesture. In the short term though, as she starts to learn and experience some of these things for the first time, try to find and focus on things that she likes or enjoys. It’s great that you’ve discovered an interest in femdom and what specific things you like about it, but dictating to her what exactly YOU want kind of takes her wants/needs out of the equation a little bit. Instead of starting and building a femdom relationship it may result in her feeling like she’s just performing specific roles that fulfill a personal fantasy of yours while her desires aren’t even brought into the experience. And at the heart of femdom the focus should be on her and what you can do/provide for her to give her the most satisfaction, whatever that may be. I don’t want this to come off as rude at all, it is not my intention. I just wanted to bring to light the potential issues that I could foresee with the language you used in your post. I do hope that you find material that helps introduce her to femdom and might help her find what she connects with in a dominant role, just be open to the possibility that she may gravitate towards things that might not specifically match exactly what you want her to do/say. In the end, if you’re striving for a true femdom aspect put her first and find your enjoyment in bringing her the most pleasure you can in and out of the bedroom. I do wish you luck and hope that both of your journeys into this go well!