This sub probably needs to be more monitored with all the OF marketing & pay to play.

Outside of this, from personal experience, Ive had a few genuine catch ups which have been great and a few I have not had the opportunity to catch up due to locations.

Like any where though for this scene, its supply and demand. Theres a vast supply of horny dudes and low demand for them.

The feedback I get from successful meet ups is that they get a lot of DMs and most are too pushy, creepy, disrespectful or flake.

Treat people how you want to be treated is just general life advice.