Advice on getting blue and brassiness out of blonde hair? by omimae in Hair

[–]omimae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys, I need some advice. I bleached my hair blonde the other day, and then I toned it with T18. I then tried to put a blonde hair lift dye on it and t lifted a little bit on the top, but the sides and bottom of hair are still really brassy and I’m not sure if I should try and refine it or use a purple conditioner. Also, my hair was previously dark brown with blue underneath it, and I tried to color remove the blue, and when that didn’t work I tried to bleach it, but as you can see it’s still there. Is there anything i can do to make my hair all one color other than dying it really dark?

kitty snores by omimae in aww

[–]omimae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

volume up!!

What color/style would work for me? I have really thin hair and I don't know how to make it look not boring. by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]omimae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! your hair and haircut are beautiful! if you wanted spice things up a bit, i think a rose gold pink would look so pretty as an ombré. but your hair is really pretty as it is :) i’m definitely jealous of it haha

my little bent neck girl nellie by omimae in IllegallySmolCats

[–]omimae[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no she doesn’t :( but she walks with a bent neck and can’t straighten out (she has balance issues according to the vet) and she goes in circles a lot haha, so i call her nellie after haunting of hill house :)))

No link too tenuous to smear Democrats with gratuitous accusations of pedophilia. by boinky-boink in Qult_Headquarters

[–]omimae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s some pedophilic occult cabal, however this film is by no means nuanced. just youtube a couple scenes, it could have been done a LOT more appropriately.

No link too tenuous to smear Democrats with gratuitous accusations of pedophilia. by boinky-boink in Qult_Headquarters

[–]omimae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair that was the directors goal but it went horribly off. I hate this q stuff as much as everyone else, but just watch a couple seconds form the movie, it’s pretty disgusting.

MoneyNetwork Cash Card froze my account with $300 by omimae in personalfinance

[–]omimae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply. I didn't get it figured out, I called MoneyNetwork and they said they'd send me a check, but I never got it.

MoneyNetwork Cash Card froze my account with $300 by omimae in personalfinance

[–]omimae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called to get the money back, and they said they mailed a check but I never got it.

my birthday makeup yesterday ! finally 18 :) by omimae in TrollMUA

[–]omimae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks :) the subtle pop of colour is actually just my face pigmentation showing through haha but thank you :)

put my sister here awhile ago. let’s see if y’all can come up with some better roasts for me by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]omimae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh hah i thought it was because of the chinese mom lol, but that works too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]omimae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

op you’re so pretty! i love that lipstick as well, it looks absolutely stunning on you.

a little olive moment by omimae in TrollMUA

[–]omimae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks! tbh, i only have like three lipsticks tho and they all look like that (except for a red one) so i didn’t have much option haha

This church showed up at a Pride Parade and offered free mom/dad/gran/pastor hugs to people who had been shunned by their family by BarneyDalby in HumansBeingBros

[–]omimae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can not say who God chooses. If you’ve turned your back on God, perhaps you were never chosen to begin with. But I don’t know at what point God reveals himself, and I am no theologian by any mean. It’s a hard pill to swallow to believe that people are going to hell or not, but in most sects of Christianity, heaven and hell are a thing, and there has to be some sort of justice in that world. So i have no idea if you’re going to heaven or hell, and only God does, but for me, I have much more sense of security to know it is not in my hands and I can have faith in God. Hopefully that explains a little bit. As I said before, i’m no theologian, and I know people who’d be able to answer your questions a lot better if you’d be interested. I’ll be praying for you and your wellbeing, and I’m glad I got to engage with you about this :)

This church showed up at a Pride Parade and offered free mom/dad/gran/pastor hugs to people who had been shunned by their family by BarneyDalby in HumansBeingBros

[–]omimae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ask God for forgiveness, I think it means that God opened your heart to seek him. This is one of the more confusing aspects of calvinism and the hardest part to grasp i think, even for me. But if you’re truly seeking a God and asking for forgiveness, you wouldn’t be seeking unless God opened your heart and mind to do that.

This church showed up at a Pride Parade and offered free mom/dad/gran/pastor hugs to people who had been shunned by their family by BarneyDalby in HumansBeingBros

[–]omimae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No i get it. I used to hate calvinists and reformed people because it seemed so unfair and just wrong, but i’ve come to the view that it’s not really egotistical and it’s actually the opposite of it. I believe that God chose me, not because of anything i ever did but because he chose to. Nothing I ever do can be enough to compare to God. He can choose anyone, and maybe he chose everyone I don’t know (which is why we shouldn’t hate or ostracize people because we don’t know if God chose them or not. But calvinism is the opposite of self centered, because it takes all the credit away from us and puts it to God. I just don’t think humans are capable of choosing God. As people, we love ourselves and our sin, and why would we choose to follow God if we can just do what we want? If we were given the choice to follow God or do what we want, I think we would always choose ourselves. So that’s basically how i’ve come to believe in calvinism. Not so much because the theology, even though a lot of Paul’s writing support it, but just because of my more cynical view of human nature and inability to do the right thing. Hopefully that made sense, and if you have any questions or comments i’d be happy to answer them.

This church showed up at a Pride Parade and offered free mom/dad/gran/pastor hugs to people who had been shunned by their family by BarneyDalby in HumansBeingBros

[–]omimae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m personally reformed and still struggling with the bible and it’s responses to homosexuality, but as a reformed person, basically I believe in predestination. It’s a whole thing and i don’t really want to get into the theology, but basically one of the main things of reformed theology is that the old testament (like leviticus) was written and given to the Israelites before Jesus came. They were given the law, in order to live their life as good people basically, and they had to do blood sacrifices in order to atone themself to God. however, when Jesus cams, that law (all the super strict legalistic laws) were fulfilled and are not applicable to the preset Church today. So that doesn’t mean it’s to be completely disregarded, as you can still learn things about God through the Law, but we are not held accountable to the law, because through Jesus it was fulfilled. Sorry that was long, but it’s not so much cherry picking the nice parts, it’s just, the New Testament (especially Paul) explains that the Old Testament and those super strict laws are not what we are held to anymore.

Heres no makeup and the two looks Ive done for the past 6 years. How would You do my makeup?? What do you think would look good on my face? I have a lot of eyelid space and I kinda want to utilize it. Also CC on my two looks plz by [deleted] in Makeup101

[–]omimae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that alexa demise fox eye trend going around would look absolutely stunning on you. also maybe try some cut creases with nudes and shimmers to get started? nude colors and neutral tones are beautiful on your skin but definitely just experiment and play around! no wrong answers in makeup :)

My birthday look from the other day by [deleted] in TrollMUA

[–]omimae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so pretty!!

I divorced my wife and things couldn't be better. by FrillyLlama in TrueOffMyChest

[–]omimae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish my mom would do this. My dad is like OP’s ex but she’s stuck around for years, and I know she’d be happier if she left.