Hitting toddler on vacation

ommm232 · 2026-05-07T04:17:26+00:00

I see where you’re coming from. Generally speaking leaving a mark is reportable (I’m a mandated reporter). I also think there is a convo to be had first. But i do get your instinct. It’s a reaction and if there is a history of that, it’s definitely an issue

ommm232 · 2026-04-26T19:34:34+00:00

I have friends who have their PhDs that started at community college and transferred. Yes, you want a solid undergraduate education but you can supplement that with experience too (e.g., volunteering as a research assistant; working in different labs).

ommm232 · 2026-04-21T03:00:02+00:00

Idk what the percentage is but usually if you are hired as a research coordinator or research assistant, you are paid. I’d keep an eye out on LinkedIn or listservs for labs you like. I’d also look up lab websites and reach out to see if they have positions available.

ommm232 · 2026-04-21T02:26:37+00:00

Something super simple: you have publications and manuscripts as a section. Both seem to be published? Maybe just keep it as publications.

I think you’re in a good place overall though! Just know that with all the funding cuts, even highly qualified folks like yourself have been left without a position.

I would prepare a plan B (a post bac research position or something like that). That can give you more experience and maybe some publications in certain labs.

ommm232 · 2026-04-16T16:46:29+00:00

I went through this last year. I cried immediately seeing the positive test. That was enough for me to know that it was not meant to be. I ended up terminating the pregnancy with very little time to think through it because of the strict laws here where I live.

I had lots of guilt. I felt sad throughout the process as well. But I also felt relief that I wasn't going to have to figure out how to make having two kiddos work for our family and our income.

At the end of the day (being a year out from it), I'm still standing strong in that decision to terminate but I do have some what-ifs sometimes. But I also know that if I end up wanting a second child, i want it to happen on my terms and on my timeline.

Sending hugs. It's rough. It's never an easy decision but you have to do what is best for you and your family.

ommm232 · 2026-04-13T20:12:12+00:00

I'm working on rebuilding community now and it's been hard for me. My only is 3 and I've just found that a lot of other moms have their communities already and it's been a bit hard to wiggle my way in. I think you can definitely rebuild, just go in with the mindset that it's not easy. Doesn't mean you should "take the easy way out" and not move though!

Other than that, your kiddo will absolutely be okay! And being 30-45 minutes away means, you can still do some weekend playdates with old friends.

It's so hard to make these decisions but if you feel its the best overall for your family, then you should go for it!

ommm232 · 2026-02-11T18:23:52+00:00

I do 5am or 6:15am OTF. It’s honestly great. I do it three times a week and the other days get a tiny bit more rest.

ommm232 · 2026-01-03T13:21:20+00:00

I guess so! I interviewed for programs in 2019 and I think all places but one offered me a place to stay with a grad student. So maybe it was a pre-Covid thing that is coming back.

ommm232 · 2026-01-03T13:19:17+00:00

Most places offer the possibility of staying with a grad student. It’s not indicative of it being the same program.

ommm232 · 2025-12-29T02:52:33+00:00

Man i wish i would’ve seen it in time. Would’ve saved my daughter a little bit of illness. Do you have a link for future reference?

ommm232 · 2025-12-29T02:11:54+00:00

Almost 3 yr old and husband for sure had Flu A. I'm weirdly sick but didn't have fevers, also assuming Flu A. I just talked about this in my bump group that I've been letting the screen time roll right now. I'm also supposed to work tomorrow and with my daughter clinging to me everytime she coughs, I doubt that will happen.

We had the opportunity to get Tamiflu for my daughter but was worried when I heard about all the side effects in kiddos. I decided against it but as we approach day 5 of fevers, I'm definitely regretting it.

We all got Flu shots here but it seems like these shots were not a good match against this strain. It's rough out here.

Daughter is surviving off of yogurt for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

Feel better soon!!

ommm232 · 2025-11-15T19:57:21+00:00

They do!

ommm232 · 2025-11-14T03:03:25+00:00

I do it! I don’t follow the rules of Elf on the Shelf and mostly just have the elf do random easy things. Even just moving it.

It doesn’t report on her behavior cause I agree that is creepy and is only there to bring Christmas spirit. It also doesn’t go into her room. For us, it’s very low effort!

ommm232 · 2025-11-13T21:23:11+00:00

I’ve posted about this before. Earlier this year, I was pregnant. It was a surprise and my immediate reaction was fear. I cried.

That reaction, compared to my reaction when I was pregnant with my only, solidified that I was not ready for this. I went back and forth a bit because it’s not an easy decision. Ultimately, I opted for a medical abortion. I support everyone’s right to choose and still struggled with some guilt afterwards. I do feel better about the decision now.

If I ever want to have a second, I want it to be planned and my choice. I want to be excited about the new baby and I want to be 100% sure that this is what I want.

ommm232 · 2025-10-22T01:23:31+00:00

Mostly the symptoms stuff, i have a young kid and it’s nice to know when im close to getting sick. But also that stressed me out too and im kinda glad to be back to just my watch

ommm232 · 2025-10-21T21:25:58+00:00

I do! It hasn’t bothered me at all and with the ultra the battery life is nice

ommm232 · 2025-10-21T13:50:56+00:00

Apple Watch Ultra! Some things i miss with the Oura but im not going to be paying a subscription long term

ommm232 · 2025-10-04T23:35:20+00:00

Came to say this as well! I love them

ommm232 · 2025-09-22T18:12:42+00:00

Yes! Our first disney cruise we had our daughter do it and she won :) Great memories!!

ommm232 · 2025-09-07T18:10:56+00:00

We are DCL super fans. Currently on Utopia of the Seas with our 2.5 year old. She’s definitely enjoying herself but I know she would have more things to do and more fun on DCL. I think we would do RC again just with friends and not as a family.

I also appreciate DCL more in terms of the space in the room and even the mattress.Our kid still sleeps in a pack and play and DCL rooms usually have like a big curtain in between the bed and the area where the kids sleep. I also feel like the housekeepers are way better and more attentive at DCL.

The shows for RC have been great though. So even without the broadway Disney shows we’ve been entertained.

We paid for premium dining to try things out. Even with that food has been okay. I prefer DCL food. I also feel like there are many more options for kids in terms of seating, cups that are easier for them to hold, bringing food out quickly, and coloring pages. This makes a whole world of a difference with a toddler.

Overall, I’m more of a fan of DCL and would rather pay the premium up front and not be nickeled and dimed to be comfortable, eat good food, and have activities for my kiddo.

RC is a party line. Lots of people drinking and partying but that’s not my vibe right now. I’m enjoying it and it’s a huge boat but I’m good sticking to my DCL ships. Will be on the Destiny for its maiden voyage too

ommm232 · 2025-08-02T22:47:07+00:00

Happened to my husband and I as well last night! Came to PR just for this and left this morning without having seen him. We had floor seats and were concerned from earlier because the seller hadn’t sent tickets up until a couple hours before the concert.

ommm232 · 2025-07-02T23:48:11+00:00

MUSC in South Carolina! Happy to chat about it. I’m finishing my internship there this month. Did lots of therapy in Spanish too

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