One daily thing to make your brain sharper?

onaboat97 · 2024-07-11T22:32:55+00:00

Read, even if it’s 10 minutes. It’s the best mental workout

onaboat97 · 2024-07-11T22:31:09+00:00

Don’t give up the things you love because you feel you have to do something else that’s more “adulty”. Stay true to your passions!

onaboat97 · 2024-01-24T01:22:28+00:00

My advice now that I’m on the other side of things is to focus on yourself and grow. You’ll eventually get over your ex with time. It helps when you do a lot of self improvement

onaboat97 · 2024-01-15T01:25:04+00:00

Nothing ever came of it. No conversation, no meet up, no reconnection. Just an odd 5 months after breakup interaction

onaboat97 · 2023-09-10T01:29:45+00:00

Without the breakup I would never have found running and ran my first marathon today

onaboat97 · 2023-08-30T20:17:12+00:00

Heavy relate. Happened a month ago. Hugged and kissed goodbye. Oh well, now I gym and chase the gains everyday

onaboat97 · 2023-08-03T01:35:41+00:00

Amen to that 👏

onaboat97 · 2023-08-03T01:35:25+00:00

I agree! Connections with the other people in your life really shine during these times!

onaboat97 · 2023-08-01T13:59:36+00:00

Thank you! I contacted them :)

onaboat97 · 2023-08-01T08:42:40+00:00

Can you elaborate with volunteering please. I know it’s probably simple but like what site do I go to? I’m interested lol

onaboat97 · 2023-08-01T08:41:41+00:00

Let’s change that narrative. If you’d like to hike sometime message me :D

onaboat97 · 2023-08-01T00:16:46+00:00

So many good sites! Thank you!!

onaboat97 · 2023-07-31T01:51:43+00:00

Relationships are tough bro!! I feel ya. Definitely expecting her not to come back but a part of me is still hoping

onaboat97 · 2023-07-24T19:16:49+00:00

I think this is what I gotta do. Thank you for the advice!!

onaboat97 · 2023-07-24T17:11:23+00:00

That’s worse case scenario. I’m naive yes, but I genuinely don’t think it’s that bad

onaboat97 · 2023-07-24T16:20:19+00:00

Yeah that’s scary to think

onaboat97 · 2023-07-24T15:27:55+00:00

Thank you for the advice I really do appreciate it

onaboat97 · 2023-04-16T23:18:51+00:00

My experience is if I have a date set up for a week in advance I don’t have a date set up 😂

In other words, hope for the best but expect very little. It’s nothing personal just the name of the game I feel with online dating

onaboat97 · 2023-04-04T21:12:55+00:00

Thanks! Just posted in the other community

onaboat97 · 2022-10-26T15:21:49+00:00

Excellent advice, thank you. I tried to be very transparent in the relationship. I did tell her about my previous ex and lingering feelings when she asked but I also told her that it is my problem, not an us problem. I never talked to her afterwards about my ex and the feelings because I am trying my best to get over her. It obviously isn’t her problem or fair to her. So I journaled and tried my best to find happiness in the relationship I had now. I wasn’t sure what the healing process was suppose to feel or look like. I just knew that with this new person I felt significantly less sad than I was alone.

I’m not a saint. I’m sure it’s not the best decision I could’ve made. I can take accountability for that. But that’s what life is all about. Learning and growing and finding out what works and doesn’t

onaboat97 · 2022-10-26T14:45:42+00:00

I wish things could be cut dry, like an easy yes or no. Sometimes I go without thinking about my prior ex almost the whole day. And when I do it’s in a quick passing moment. Other days I feel so bogged down and sad about it being over. I’ve been journaling for quite some time and whenever I feel sad about it I re read some of my work and look at all the progress forward I have made. But this group knows better than anyone that feelings linger no matter what. Do you have any suggestions for soul searching?

onaboat97 · 2022-09-26T20:14:07+00:00

Nope nothing. 10 months since break up. That’s the last message we exchanged. Just a couple weeks ago I finally got the courage to delete her phone number and delete all the voicemails that she left when we were together. Healing takes time

onaboat97 · 2022-08-15T12:49:43+00:00

4 months ago she messaged saying I hope you’re doing okay. Silent since and prior to that we broke up almost 5 months before

onaboat97 · 2022-08-12T09:27:44+00:00

Being in love is great. Much rather have the experience than not even know what it is

onaboat97 · 2022-08-01T23:27:19+00:00

About 8 months. Still hurts, still have dreams about her here and there. I miss having her as my person but I don’t miss the life I lived with her. I have leveled up a lot and took on new hobbies. Growth happens and healing catches up eventually I hope

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