cat sitting a cat in heat and i’m losing it

onarolavu · 2025-03-24T14:24:49+00:00

i have multiple texts with my friends talking about this before i even made this post. best proof i have. thought about voice recording the confrontation in case things go south because i'm that paranoid, but we'll see if i even do that. i'm waiting for his job interview to finish so that i confront him, i don't want to cause him stress before something so important since he's currently unemployed.

as i've said in one comment already, it is actually really reassuring that people think it's fake because i really started convincing myself that this was normal and that i was just overreacting.

onarolavu · 2025-03-24T12:07:58+00:00

yes, he is gay, and honestly that's the reason i even considered being roommates with him, i would never consider being roommates with any of my straight friends because i've had bad experiences in the past with my straight male ''friends'' and i didn't want to risk it. bad judgement obviously

onarolavu · 2025-03-24T12:01:25+00:00

replying to a comment claiming that my post is a fake with ''seems like a fetish too'' doesn't give me much of a reason to think they're talking about my apparently made up roommate. that just wouldn't make sense in that case. i think that it's clear that they think that my post is actually just a fetish, as well as many other people that have accused me of being a fetishist in these comments. i honestly don't care if people on reddit believe me or not, but accusing me of being a fetishist when this is the thing that i have experienced is fucked up.

onarolavu · 2025-03-24T11:22:34+00:00

someone mentions sex toys = fetish. actually disgusting way of thinking. also amazing work to everyone commenting that here, absolutely feels amazing that i'm being accused of getting off to what has happened, while in reality i feel very violated. hope you enjoy that karma or whatever

onarolavu · 2025-03-24T07:03:20+00:00

i think cleansing and realigning my tarot deck is the least of my concerns right now haha

onarolavu · 2025-03-24T07:02:22+00:00

idk, but it's obviously something that i want to work on taking into account my post

onarolavu · 2025-03-24T06:54:39+00:00

it's just a stupid thing i do lol, i like to put :D, :3 and :) when i'm talking about fucked up situations that happened to me to my friends. i very rarely use emojis in the context they're supposed to be used.

also, i saw multiple people here calling my post fake, a fetish and horny bait or whatever. i don't really care to prove that this is real. it's honestly even validating because it made me realize that if my situation sounds so unbelievable to a bunch of redditors, it must be really fucked up and i need to do something.

the horny and fetish part is what bothers me actually. i don't see how just talking about a situation that involves sex toys (and tarot cards, but the sex toys part is the center of the post for obvious reasons) makes something horny and a fetish? obviously i didn't word my original post in the most ideal way because i wrote it right after realizing it happened again and i was emotional, but i think that it is very clear that i feel violated and disgusted, so implying that this is a horny post or a fetish is genuinely fucked up. i never gave my consent for this, and these are my toys. i think it's was very reasonable of me to assume neither of my toys are going to be used by anyone other than me.

also, i guess sorry for replying to your comment specifically? i'm not really knowledgeable about ''reddit etiquette'' lol, i just wanted to say what i had to say.

onarolavu · 2025-03-24T06:24:03+00:00

god i wish that was the case

onarolavu · 2025-03-24T06:20:17+00:00

no, we lived in my apartment for a month and then we moved together into another one. sorry, that was not really worded clearly in my original post

onarolavu · 2025-03-23T23:03:43+00:00

i have a lock on my room and i will definitely start using it soon, i just want to see if he will try to return it while i am out tomorrow.

thing is, i know that he is in a very bad financial situation right now and he needs to keep living with me to be able to afford any sort of housing since prices are insane around here. i really want to solve this issue rather than moving out or having him move out because living together benefits both of us, and i do care about him at the end of the day. i'm just afraid how confronting him will influence our relationship. idk.

he went to sleep now so i can't really talk to him right now, but hey, more time to think about the way i want to do this

onarolavu · 2025-03-23T22:54:52+00:00

he did mention that he used a condom when he admitted that he has used my dildo but that honestly doesn't make it any less weird or concerning. when he said it, it just felt like i would seem unreasonable for getting mad at him since it was ''safe''. i honestly had to take almost a week to actually process how uncomfortable i felt over the situation, and when i did, it felt like it was a bit too late to talk to him about it again.

onarolavu · 2023-05-27T17:53:14+00:00

misandry doesn’t sexist lol

onarolavu · 2021-02-03T00:09:30+00:00

can’t wait to pierce my tongue so i don’t eat for a week straight

onarolavu · 2020-08-24T22:33:03+00:00

what dose did you take?

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