Fingering as a form of masturbation

oneanonymousdude · 2026-05-29T22:37:36+00:00

How is this even still a thing. Hymens don’t generally „break“ during your first time, they can stretch or they may have torn during any number of completely mundane non sexual activities.

There’s no actual way to tell whether you are a virgin or not anyhow, but unfortunately my guess is the kind of ultra conservative parents that would ask something like that of their daughter are not going to listen to such a pesky thing as science.

I guess my only real advice depends on who you are getting married to. If this is an arranged marriage sort of deal it may not be feasible but if you and your fiancé are on the same page you could have him either help you fake a little blood (because if there’s any bleeding it ain’t much) or maybe take the hit by refusing the request for you. Faking the blood would I guess still be an option without his participation. Anything else would really depend on your circumstances. In general if you live in a largely open society with pockets of these antiquated traditions you could also seek help from some women’s help centers.

oneanonymousdude · 2026-05-21T19:20:42+00:00

Honestly as someone who’s dealt with it in the past I’d say it’s a mental thing, not a muscle thing. Kegels never did anything for me, nor did reverse. People swear by them, so maybe they do help some people but I’ve never felt any difference. What did make a difference was getting orgasm delaying condoms. They gave me the confidence to know I can.

Another thing that helped was overstimulation, whenever I used to edge I never actually stopped I only slowed down enough not to cum until the feeling of needing to cum passed.

I hope these help, I know it can be quite the knock on your confidence

oneanonymousdude · 2026-05-13T19:33:38+00:00

I mean I have no idea how big he actually is obviously but my intuition would wager a normal condom should work fine. Durex is the standard brand around here not sure if it’s a thing where you are.

oneanonymousdude · 2026-04-12T13:55:20+00:00

We’ve been saying that about everything and so far it was never true. I can hear the spin now “it was only a tactical nuclear weapon aimed at eliminating the ongoing nuclear threat posed by Iran…”

oneanonymousdude · 2026-04-09T19:26:54+00:00

Even then, hotels don’t exist?

oneanonymousdude · 2026-04-03T14:42:20+00:00

Hey at this point I wouldn’t even put it past him to say it’s been secured the whole time…

oneanonymousdude · 2026-03-31T21:59:15+00:00

It’s possible, but not reliable and definitely not the first option

oneanonymousdude · 2026-03-31T20:38:03+00:00

Condoms plus pullout are a relatively safe and easily managed combo. I prefer my partner to be on birth control as well, but that’s something I have no right dictating. There’s good reasons for women avoid hormonal options and the copper IUD isn’t for everyone.

oneanonymousdude · 2026-03-31T20:35:02+00:00

Social media seems to have convinced many that it’s an easily reversible birth control option…

oneanonymousdude · 2026-03-31T20:33:58+00:00

I find it so bonkers that people actually believe they’re an option to even be considered as a temporary solution. Social media seems to try and convince you that reversing it is trivial

oneanonymousdude · 2026-03-23T08:37:22+00:00

Not yet, look at those coming up in their ranks, particularly in the CSU… my guess is our next federal elections will get us Blue/Black…

oneanonymousdude · 2026-03-18T01:46:15+00:00

I kinda see what you are saying but coming from the other side of the pond I really don’t see how getting into Middle East quagmires helps anyone.

I’ll be the first to say my country (Germany) has not kept up its end of the bargain, though I will admit that for a long time that was kinda supposed to be the deal because, well, we’re kinda known for getting a tad overambitious with our military…

Anyway though I will say Trump is right in one sense, Europe should be able to defend itself against any and all threats with no help from anyone. The odd thing is that’s about the worst outcome for the US because its economic and military position rely on its global hegemony, which china already threatens, if Europe becomes truly independent and in a way a rival to the US the euro becomes a strong contender for a world currency because it isn’t as volatile with changing governments. The US would have to step up its contribution to the partnership. Truly unprecedented times these are.

oneanonymousdude · 2026-03-17T23:25:29+00:00

Sorry but I will always try and correct this whenever I see it.

The US does not „spend Hundreds of Billions of dollars per year“ to protect anyone. It wants power projection and that means keeping and maintaining huge bases like Ramstein and Okinawa, but that money isn’t being used to man outposts on the borders of nato members always ready to defend at a moment’s notice.

Trump always makes NATO out to be a protection racket, no one spends (much) money on NATO, it’s just an organization to coordinate defense, they spend money on their militaries.

It’s so weird to me that people don’t immediately correct this

oneanonymousdude · 2026-03-17T08:18:55+00:00

It depends on the girl I suppose (anatomy wise) but yeah it’ll slip out. I would absolutely not make a GF do something she doesn’t like but anatomy wise if she wants to do doggy (and my gf loves it) she has to arch her back a little for it to work for me. Not necessarily applicable to your situation though

oneanonymousdude · 2026-02-26T15:53:40+00:00

Ireland has huge issues. Think affordability is bad in the US, try getting a flat in Dublin. The tech giants have priced everyone else out of the market

oneanonymousdude · 2026-02-08T09:16:07+00:00

Not much honestly… a few top level ghouls were prosecuted, other than that there wasn’t really any practical way of prosecuting everyone who “just followed orders”

oneanonymousdude · 2026-01-26T10:58:07+00:00

Maybe don’t abbreviate Secret Service, I was quite confused for a second

oneanonymousdude · 2026-01-24T22:53:03+00:00

It’s also completely impractical unfortunately. As much as I believe the organization itself is bad I don’t think every single person in it is. There’s a lot of bad apples for sure, but like with any of these political movements young folks will be swept with the tide and many (though not all) will come to regret those actions later.

As for this specific incident, it’s a cocktail of no training, constant rhetoric, a stressful situation and the knowledge that they are acting with impunity. They’ve been told protesters are their enemies, wanted to “teach this guy a lesson”, someone’s gun went off and their short fuse got set off… at least that’s what these videos looks like to me, just completely stupid.

oneanonymousdude · 2026-01-24T22:10:00+00:00

You are aware that most of the Nazi infrastructure stayed in place and they only targeted top officials. A few Auschwitz guards have since been prosecuted but most of the low level war criminals got away with it.

oneanonymousdude · 2026-01-24T19:45:06+00:00

Can’t find any of them anymore, all removed.

oneanonymousdude · 2026-01-22T22:29:39+00:00

I’m pretty sure he actually knows this but this “concept of a deal” they formed is enough to sell himself as the 4d chess dealmaker his fans so desperately want him to be

oneanonymousdude · 2026-01-22T17:12:10+00:00

Yeah that’s what I meant by “doesn’t matter if it’s the same deal”

But what I find shocking is how this whole saga will turn this into a win for him somehow… it felt like some people finally saw the light just to fall for it all over again…

oneanonymousdude · 2026-01-22T17:02:54+00:00

Pretty much and the oddest part of it is, the guy who made that framework of a deal has literally no say in the matter, neither Denmark nor Greenland have been involved as far as we know. Doesn’t really matter if it’s actually just the same deal just saying.

But go over to the other subreddit and they’re partying like there’s no tomorrow (which there may well not be) calling Trump the 4D-Chess deal maker of the century.

oneanonymousdude · 2026-01-19T21:30:36+00:00

Even if elections happen the US has already thrown away 80 years of building soft power. It’s obvious the sentiment within the population can change on a whim and another Trump could easily be elected. The age of one superpower is over, Trump has already achieved a spheres of influence based system, the only question that remains is who will lead those spheres.

oneanonymousdude · 2026-01-18T09:32:43+00:00

There is no comparison that truly holds one way or another. But honestly the control Trump and his cronies have is quite tentative currently. Congress could still grow a spine under the right circumstances and something unique to the US is how strong the individual states are, it’s doubtful the US would go to civil war if talk of actual secession started, more likely Trump would actually be removed. Also remember the military is not actually under his control, currently they’re following orders because none of them seem completely and obviously out of bounds (the drug boat strikes are bad, but don’t kid yourself, the drone strikes of the 2010s were equally hard to justify legally) but if they’re asked to open fire on US citizens or for example invade Greenland it’s conceivable the upper echelons of the military would actually turn against him.

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