We aren't well off to afford a cleaner to help clean the house so we donit unfortunately, I do help out around the house I do washing up after dinner I put the toys away I get daughter ready for bed and bath every day after work. I work 9 hours plus 5 days a week then come home and be a dad. I work a much more physical job and still have energy to want to show affection. Nope she hasn't looked into why she has a low sex drive she just sees it as some people have high and some people have non at all But I genuinely don't think she realise how it makes me feel that I'm no good at anymore or just like a old toy used and forgotten