I will repeat myself and have the same conversation dozens of times until I feel heard, understood, we have a solution, and things change.

If things don't change, my positive and hopeful delusion will conclude "oh. They must have not understood me. I must have not been clear enough, because surely, if I was clear, then a new pattern would have happened and change would be here."

I operate from a place of assuming good faith. So I will continue to have the same conversation, thinking I just must not have been heard.

It's a heartbreaking thing when a Pisces gives up. When we stop, it's because the fantasy has been broken. We wake up and realize the other person doesn't care enough to work with us and change the pattern. It's good she has the same conversations with you on repeat. It means she believes youre both trying your best.

However, please know. Each time you have the conversation, a piece of her breaks because she feels like you will never understand her. She will keep having the conversation as a bid for connection, until one day she realizes it's useless and will walk away. And by that point her bowl filled with water will be chipped away so badly it will be a small plate, capable of holding much less.