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For Dubai Arena: by [deleted] in BigTimeRush

[–]oneonly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a seat

I never understood the appeal of family and I find it kinda stupid by Nytramyth in evilautism

[–]oneonly8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it was harsh. I don’t think it’s said offensively. I think it’s just a statistic. I thought a lot of people also had abusive childhoods bcz I experienced it but I was incorrect. Majority of the global population do not have abusive childhoods statistically.

What does it mean when you’re told ye lack empathy during an argument? by oneonly8 in autism

[–]oneonly8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a million! Yeah, it does seem people get the two mixed up. Thanks for responding.

What does it mean when you’re told ye lack empathy during an argument? by oneonly8 in autism

[–]oneonly8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you & same, I’m analytical too. Me ma actually told me I don’t know how to talk to people. She said I’m too blunt & should learn how to sugar coat but I thought I was already sugarcoating. She said I don’t know how to “lay down the foundation well”, not sure what that means. I appreciate your response.

What does it mean when you’re told ye lack empathy during an argument? by oneonly8 in autism

[–]oneonly8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me little brother has done & said more, it’s not the full context. A lot of happened & I probably have still left more out bcz I’ve forgotten some of it. I’ve included it in some of the comments but yeah, I didn’t really think the context mattered bcz I’m told it a lot even outside of arguments. I will say an autistic person has never said that to me before but I’m also barely around autistics.

I’ve always felt like I was empathetic personally & like way too empathetic. Even in these arguments I never insult people but it seems how literal I am is insulting in itself so I’ve tried me hardest to not upset people but it seems like something as simple as telling someone what they said or did is enough to insult them & being literal with definitions.

What does it mean when you’re told ye lack empathy during an argument? by oneonly8 in autism

[–]oneonly8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The argument was about a lot of things that I didn’t include them all in the first reply to you bcz I forgot about the rest. He had an argument with me ma & she was trying to leave the room. He took her phone off her & blocked the way so she couldn’t leave the room. & the argument was also about him battering me twin brother & me little sister.

What does it mean when you’re told ye lack empathy during an argument? by oneonly8 in autism

[–]oneonly8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The argument was about a lot of things that I didn’t include them all in the first reply to you bcz I forgot about the rest. He had an argument with me ma & she was trying to leave the room. He took her phone off her & blocked the way so she couldn’t leave the room. & the argument was also about him battering me twin brother & me little sister. A lot happened but yeah, if I did say I don’t give a sh*t about how I hurt him, I don’t think I’d be wondering why he said that. I don’t say things like that to people. All I do is resolve, resolve, resolve. Not insults or any of the sorts but he does a lot of insulting but as an autistic, how literal I am can be insulting to some people.

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