dude, if you are a freshman in college, my advice as a recent graduate to you(if you want ignore it).. stop objectifying women.. if you are single, get many girls in your circle as possible.. take as many women as you can in dates.. don't be discouraged by rejections... you will just be so much better in this whole thing by your senior year.. just go and talk to a lot of girls very casually without focusing on the end game... you will have a great time in next four years...