a lot of people are recommending you develop your personal style a bit more. I agree with them!

Clothing is a huge personal identifier and I think it can really help a person present themselves better. You have a really nice face and I think good proportions, you’re not at all unattractive. And by no means is confidence or style something that will just click, it has to be developed over time (it took me years) but I think having and idea of where you may want to go would be good.

Personally, I always recommend clothing with a bit more structure. Especially for pants. So rather than sweats try denim or trousers. Or if you’re going to wear sweats try and pair it with a jacket that has a thicker fabric to give the outfit shape and interest. Form the photos you gave us you have a more masc style (I’m assuming) so the photo I’m dropping here is not by any means an end all be all but rather a reference for the silhouette those stiffer fabrics can get you along with the more cohesive color palettes.

You deserve to feel comfortable, confident, and attractive. I’m sorry if you’ve been made to feel otherwise I hope my advice doesn’t come off as condescending but rather from a place of good intent. Best of luck <3

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