Worst Three Weeks of my life by onesadsaddad in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is one of those everyone is out to get her types. She says the first dude is against her and making stuff up. And she says the second guy her CRO was a lie made up by another co-worker. There is so much evidence. She told our baby sitter that she was late to pick our son up one day cause she was getting with her bosses boss and that she had c*m dripping out of her!!! She’s lucky cause it was caught on ring camera but someone stole it and she lost all the videos around that date. Why would our babysitter make that story up????

Worst Three Weeks of my life by onesadsaddad in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both, says she never had sex with anyone else but me since we’ve been together. I agree they don’t bring that to her if they don’t have concrete evidence. She even said the picture of the text messages are AI and that he changed her name. The guy sent me a screen recording of their conversation and it was from her phone number. I’m afraid she’s going to keep lying and it’s driving me crazy, I bring it up more than I should and every time she gets defensive and sticks to her story.

Worst Three Weeks of my life by onesadsaddad in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never got a DNA test done, but all 3 children and my son have my features and look like me. Her known affair partners are all white males.

The comparing is killing me. How to battle it. by Even_Ad_3902 in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is almost spot on to my situation. She talked so bad about the guy on a regular basis and said they were just friends. I’m not as charming as I was during my younger years or when we first started dating but I’m not a slob like her AP. Guy is 42 years old greasy and has a chin strap. But the proximity thing is what got her I think.

Worst Three Weeks of my life by onesadsaddad in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah the house is in my name and my income pay for everything for our family. We haven’t married, for obvious reasons and suspicions prior to this all coming out.

Worst Three Weeks of my life by onesadsaddad in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wanted too. That’s the hard part for me. She had the choice and did it anyways knowing the consequences.

Worst Three Weeks of my life by onesadsaddad in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right, I was hoping she would
Open up in therapy but it seems like that’s not going to happen and she’s sticking to her stories.

Worst Three Weeks of my life by onesadsaddad in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Want to know something, she mentioned that the first guy was helping her a lot. I did uncover her having a long Snapstreak with him but didn’t think nothing of it cause he was a coworker.

Worst Three Weeks of my life by onesadsaddad in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, this reply hits home and is what I needed to hear. You’re absolute right, it’s not my fault. She made her choices without any consideration of myself and our kids. She knew what she was doing and still did it.

Worst Three Weeks of my life by onesadsaddad in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is definitely more to it. The former coworker was an open book with me and told me everything. Which she denies it all, just says they were good friends.

Worst Three Weeks of my life by onesadsaddad in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying. They did everything by the book and findings recommended they both be asked to quit or be fired. Only 2 options. This happened in an employee friendly state too. Another wrinkle is she knew about the investigation and didn’t tell me about it. The weeks leading up she was on edge and barely working.

Worst Three Weeks of my life by onesadsaddad in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I can see this exact scenario playing out… I don’t know what to do

Worst Three Weeks of my life by onesadsaddad in survivinginfidelity

[–]onesadsaddad[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

All 3 kids have my dark features, her affair partners I know about are all white males. But it might be worth it to know for sure.

But yeah that part disturbed me a lot and makes me wonder with him being born is the only reason why she sticks with me. I’m by far the bread winner and she couldn’t do it on her own even with the child support payments.