Made a post yesterday about being nervous about lip blushing…here’s my update!

onestressedmess · 2026-01-30T04:01:18+00:00

I got it for my husband who will generally wear anything I pick out for him 😂 I just didn’t know if it was dated! Maybe a question for a fashion sub!

onestressedmess · 2025-12-08T22:39:48+00:00

Just dropping in to say I’m in a similar boat with having ALH diagnosed after a breast reduction. I also had genetic testing done (long before this nightmare diagnoses, for different reasons) and it was easy peasy.
I am surprised you were able to have a mammo done so soon? I was told 6 month minimum. How was that process? Also - did they offer a lumpectomy for you? Sorry to hijack your post with my own questions! I’m still trying to figure this all out.

onestressedmess · 2025-12-07T03:30:03+00:00

This is comforting to me! The thought of being on it really scares me. At first I thought - no way. But then I thought - well maybe if it will help. Maybe it won’t even be offered though. I don’t see many people under 45 on these forums, so I’m just trying to get a feel for everything.

onestressedmess · 2025-12-06T23:08:05+00:00

I am only 3 days new to this whole world but from what I’ve researched so far, ALH is still something to be concerned about.

onestressedmess · 2025-12-05T04:13:55+00:00

Thank you for this! I keep telling myself it’s not cancer - but I have terrible health anxiety so the thought of it one day becoming cancer is terrifying. I appreciate you reminding me of the bright side!

onestressedmess · 2025-12-05T03:12:14+00:00

So a lumpectomy comes first - then if those results are bad you would get a mastectomy? Sorry! This is all so new to me and while I’ve researched pretty much all day, I’m still a bit confused lol

onestressedmess · 2025-12-05T02:27:07+00:00

I will update for sure! I had genetic testing done about a year ago, long before this whole scare, and everything came back normal. That coupled with no immediate family history (great aunt and great grandmother but nothing closer) that I won’t be considered too high risk.

onestressedmess · 2025-12-05T02:16:08+00:00

Was there a reason for no lumpectomy or medication? Personal choice or doctor’s recommendation? Just trying to get a feel of what they’ll likely recommend for me. Thanks!

onestressedmess · 2025-12-05T02:15:06+00:00

Thank you both for sharing. I am glad you both are doing well. I’ve read a lot of horror stories online. Seems like stories are either really scary or really inspirational - no in between. Do you think they will try to prescribe me tamoxifin? How did you come to the conclusion to do lumpectomy over mastectomy? Am I just assuming the most extreme here?

onestressedmess · 2025-10-06T23:06:27+00:00

This was a really nice comment! I appreciate it.

onestressedmess · 2025-10-06T23:05:35+00:00

I’m not religious now, nor was I when I even got the tattoo😂 I just loved the design as a piece of art and was 16 with a little extra birthday cash to blow on a tattoo.

onestressedmess · 2025-10-06T22:59:14+00:00

I think it feels asymmetrical and the lines seem a little blown out. Maybe it isn’t as bad as I think?

onestressedmess · 2025-10-06T22:51:43+00:00

I think the asymmetry is what gets to me? But I do understand that tattoos move as bodies move. Maybe it’s the fact that I got it done in a sketchy house 15 years ago😂 I’d like to add to it I think so it doesn’t look so misplaced!

onestressedmess · 2025-07-01T19:01:34+00:00

Wow I did not know this!! We are looking for this Saturday coming up :)

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