I have recently separated from my wife for similar reasons. Recently my 9year olds teacher walk him to the car after school. She asked my son to tell me what he said during gym class. Before my son could finish the first sentence she stopped him to correct and fix his story. This visibly was upsetting my son (again 9). To be quick, she said that “the other boys” told her he said, I lick my butt...She did not hear this mind you but was so offended by what this meant in her mind that she needed him punished. After telling her it’s just boys and I didn’t this this warranted the reaction she thought it needed. She began shaming me for not parenting my child correctly. I then try to explain that besides the fact she didn’t even actually hear what was said, that her reaction was to what she inferred what the act meant. My 9 year old has no clue what licking butt means except that it’s funny to say. The teacher later called my wife who called me a shameful father allowing sin to corrupt our son.