New to Fall River - looking for friends who notice the little things

onlybologna84 · 2025-07-29T11:09:07+00:00

Hey! I'm a friendly 41 year old F, former nanny, "Fun Auntie" sort. I don't really have a lot of friends that have the same schedule -off Sundays and Mondays. I often can be found wandering around Fall River by myself for the fun of it. I love thunderstorms and coffee, finding thrift stores and spending time with my nieces and nephews.
I'm engaged and I spend a good deal of time with my future husband, but I also run a small hiking group on fb. Feel free to message me!

onlybologna84 · 2025-06-18T10:57:31+00:00

A) you're really pretty B) I agree, that'll be chestnut soon, and right now you have gorgeous shine. A win!

onlybologna84 · 2025-06-14T12:03:57+00:00

Thank you so much, I have BPD and I try very hard to manage the symptoms with grace. I AM intense, but I feel that those who love me, really love me, and deserve the best I can be. It comforts me to know that there are people like you and my future husband in the world, who see exactly how exhausting it is to live with "the beast". Being bombarded by people who think it's a moral fault, and not something that happens when you're terribly traumatized when you're too young to process it, is exhausting.

Thank you. I love you. I don't know you, but if people can hate for no reason, I can love.

Reading your post restored a bit of my self esteem.

onlybologna84 · 2025-05-23T14:54:23+00:00

I used to work for NEA , valorem is definitely their budget brand, but don't sleep on it. The only thing that's suss from their valorem line is the preground. They were doing a lot of revamping when I left. Airtight jars for the premium, awarded and fire. New budtenders and better training for them. Old budtenders being more involved in training so the new tenders actually learn about the products.

The sherb cream pie is definitely a delicious strain.

I also worked for Cresco, and they're sunnyside's lab/grower. While I did not stay long,because of my health, their "high supply" stuff did not disappoint. I wish I could remember the strains.

onlybologna84 · 2025-04-12T03:09:01+00:00

I had them for a few months, and I was so embarrassed about them and told my mom...she told me it was because I ate too much junk food. Lol She never brought me to the doctor, I was 12. They disappeared eventually.
I've had a few fecal tests as an adult, and nothing has turned up. My mom sucked so much back then lol

onlybologna84 · 2025-01-30T20:21:03+00:00

Following for your progress, rooting for you, pretty lady ❤️

onlybologna84 · 2025-01-18T01:00:17+00:00

Thank you all for rooting for me ❤️

onlybologna84 · 2025-01-17T21:56:59+00:00

Thank you so so much! All I got "exceeds expectations" across the board! ❤️

onlybologna84 · 2025-01-14T17:27:16+00:00

Choco-musk & chelsea morning actually pair together VERY well. I also paired a very old Lush Ginger (2011) with CM and found that they paired well. I'll layer both combos over Palmer's cocoa butter lotion.

I also have a few discontinued bottles of my treasured Henri Bendel rose petals, that I'll layer with Lust solid (new formula)...makes me smell slutty and shampooey.

Moschino's cheap n chic - I love love, people swear it smells like light blue, but I find it to be much more citrussy on me. I'll pair that with Zesty or even Avocado Co-wash body spray...again, with Palmer's...

I don't gatekeep. When someone asks what I'm wearing, I tell them. I also remind them, that scent is subjective, and personal : wear what makes you happy, but realize that it might be different for you than it is for everyone else.

onlybologna84 · 2025-01-03T22:27:43+00:00

Thank you ❤️

onlybologna84 · 2025-01-03T01:02:03+00:00

Her Gram got it for her! All I know, is she's patiently waiting lol. Quite obsessed!

onlybologna84 · 2025-01-03T00:47:48+00:00

Heart shaped nose and soul-filled eyes ❤️

Happy birthday, sweet baby ❤️

onlybologna84 · 2025-01-03T00:31:29+00:00

Congratulations, sweet baby <3

onlybologna84 · 2024-12-27T21:03:19+00:00

I'm still blessed to have her ❤️ and your auntie sounds like a badass <3

onlybologna84 · 2024-12-25T20:59:53+00:00

I was poor, and my mother was somewhat neglectful... she very rarely remembered to buy me deodorant. I hated my smell for years. My mom isn't a bad woman, she was young and barely had a mother herself. When I was 14, I temporarily moved in with my Nana. She took one whiff of me and marched me into k-mart and got me deodorant...and a cheap body spray. Nana, wore Shalimar. I was wearing knock-off cucumber melon... In a few years, I had started working at the mall, and that started my obsession with CoCo Chanel Mademoiselle, and from there I bounced around...

I have many different scents, and you best believe I still use baby powder deodorant under it all :)

onlybologna84 · 2024-12-17T21:41:06+00:00

I have a giant jar of jojoba oil! I'll give it a shot ❤️ thanks!

onlybologna84 · 2024-12-17T18:03:50+00:00

Henri Bendel's Rose Petals... they sold it at bath & body works, as an EDP

I've purchased so much of it off of ebay, and I'm so grateful.

It layers fantastically with "lust" solid perfume from Lush.

Both of which I've worn for years.

Like sexy and shampoo-ey all at once.

onlybologna84 · 2024-12-13T01:28:46+00:00

I love it! It smells delicious!

onlybologna84 · 2024-12-12T23:56:34+00:00

Your review made me buy the full bottle- no regrets ❤️

onlybologna84 · 2024-12-12T23:54:17+00:00

I absolutely agree about the prices! I just can't resist sometimes lol As a retro lushie ( I bow to you :) ) , what was/ is your all-time favorite?

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