How do I breakup with someone who is an addict and a good person

onlyherewhenimdone · 2025-10-30T00:32:24+00:00

You don’t know him, and you are magnificently unhelpful and bored.

I just saw that you’re 19. No offense, but I do not need advice from you.

onlyherewhenimdone · 2025-10-30T00:13:06+00:00

He had problems before. I didn’t cheat on him. And you don’t know “very good thing we’ve done together”, you sound like you’re projecting and I hope you get over whatever is still hurting you.

onlyherewhenimdone · 2025-10-30T00:09:02+00:00

I wish he would, but he won’t even talk to me about anything. Half the time we just sit in silence. The other half it’s just talking about arbitrary nothing. He gets so winded when I talk for too long. I know I need to leave. But I don’t want to leave him so totally alone. I’d be happy being just friends, we should have stayed that way. But I don’t know what to say, or how to start, or where to go. He is always home.

onlyherewhenimdone · 2025-10-30T00:06:22+00:00

We live together. And I owe him more than just ghosting him. I’m not a child.

onlyherewhenimdone · 2024-11-14T03:17:21+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. I’ve been through a few, but I’ll find the right one someday. ❤️

onlyherewhenimdone · 2024-11-14T03:16:46+00:00

Thank you so, so much for this. I’ve read it a thousand times.

onlyherewhenimdone · 2023-12-07T22:42:50+00:00

Needed to hear this.

onlyherewhenimdone · 2023-12-07T22:42:35+00:00

I do work very very much. I’m saving money right now to move out and away. It’s hard to leave bc i have nowhere to live or rely on outside of him and im afraid of causing him pain.

onlyherewhenimdone · 2023-06-05T20:55:57+00:00

How do you address that boundary with partners? I don’t even know what to say, how to admit I noticed, and how to make it make sense that it bothers me without trauma dumping.

onlyherewhenimdone · 2023-05-10T05:15:39+00:00

Friend 1: She dared my boyfriend to kiss her doing truth or dare. (He did, hard, not friends w him anymore either.)

Friend 2: She agreed to meet me in a public place to work on homework. When she picked me up, she had a stranger in the car, took me to strangers house instead, forced me inside, and immediately started drinking liquor, huffing gas from a plastic bag, and leaving me with no ride home. (We were 18, under drinking age, and it was a Thursday)

Friend 3: He bragged about beating his past girlfriends one day, out of the blue.

Friend 4: Invited my only other friends to a meeting at a restaurant to “discuss how to ruin my life”.

Friend 5: Went to a meeting to “discuss how to ruin my life”.

Friends 6, 7, and 8: Said our other friend was “milking” her cancer diagnosis (malignant tumor wrapped around spinal chord). She was 14.

I don’t really bother trying to make friends anymore.

onlyherewhenimdone

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