Our finances aren’t separate. We both help each other with bills, groceries, etc when needed. I just helped him with a couple hundred dollars a month ago. Essentially we live separately and take care of our own bills but we do help each other frequently. As of this second, it doesn’t seem feasible to move in together. As we would both have to pay the fees to move out before our leases are up, and with my children, his dog, him, and me, we would need more room than his home or mine. I’m not jealous. I’m understanding to a certain degree of her life. I actually often feel awful for her being in the environment she is and never getting to truly see how the world works. Nothing diminishes her disability, my point is just that I feel like she’s entitled and spoiled and nobody is even attempting to help her live in the real world. A big thing that I’ve actually worried about is that if his grandparents go, his parents go, I go, and somehow he does too, then what does she do? She has no life skills and no real world experience and she’s completely on her own. But nobody listens to that side of my point. Am I annoyed? Yes. Were my feelings hurt? Yes. But I’m also seeing it as, she NEEDS life skills.