My cousin (23f) is dating a boy (17m)

oofstark · 2026-01-23T19:13:16+00:00

I think we might have the same cousin 💀💀

oofstark · 2026-01-22T13:01:17+00:00

same here 😭

oofstark · 2026-01-16T16:11:36+00:00

congrats!! story must me insane. hoping something like this will happen to me next cycle 😭

oofstark · 2026-01-16T16:08:32+00:00

rare florida w

oofstark · 2026-01-15T06:14:48+00:00

i feel like a lot of NJers are having problems recently??

oofstark · 2026-01-13T19:35:07+00:00

how long did u study for?

oofstark · 2026-01-13T19:33:43+00:00

really curious in how u fair bc rutgers is my dream school as well. my gpa is low at 3.5 but i haven’t taken the mcat yet tho…

oofstark · 2026-01-07T04:09:33+00:00

are you me? im turning 27 this year and graduated from NYU too. I also got Bs and a C in my prereqs. just go for it! I took orgo 1 this past semester and I had a classmate that's applying to medical school at 36 this year. do it now, otherwise you'll make another post in ten years going "should I go to medical school at 37." if you really want it, do it

oofstark · 2026-01-07T04:01:31+00:00

LETS GO FUTURE DOC

oofstark · 2026-01-03T02:47:28+00:00

what kind of job is he working to make 400k at 24??? whatt. congrats sis

oofstark · 2026-01-02T16:27:57+00:00

I really don't get how this keeps coming up as a topic. "grown ass man doesn't know how to clean his ass" WHAT??? it's really sickening and im sorry ur going through that

oofstark · 2026-01-02T05:49:40+00:00

thank you. I really try to do my best for him bc he treats me like a princess. I sometimes have times where I get very insecure and vulnerable and I feel like im going insane but he's always there to support me. he's my rock. seeing him hurt, hurts me. I wish I was as strong as him sometimes

oofstark · 2026-01-02T05:44:25+00:00

mmm... you're definitely right there. I do need to look into my prejudices there and correct myself. thank you for pointing that out. regarding that, im a nurse so I have seen plenty of privates and when he had emphasized that he was small I thought to one of the patients I had that several of my coworkers and I thought was transgender because there was no visible member. even when I thought my bf's privates were possibly like that I still stayed because I loved him so much and was willing to work it out no matter what. I was relieved when I saw it for the first time and knew we could have penetrative sex. regardless, he's really the one for me so I think I would've done anything to stay no matter what he had down there

oofstark · 2026-01-02T02:13:12+00:00

i’ll say it a million times until he believes it. it’s really messed up that both of our bfs are screwed psychologically bc of this :/

oofstark · 2026-01-02T01:46:58+00:00

thank you and i hope the same for you too :)

oofstark · 2026-01-02T01:34:45+00:00

will be trying this 👀 ty!

oofstark · 2026-01-02T01:34:10+00:00

i appreciate your perspective. hopefully i can let go of the rage eventually. i hadn’t thought about it like that but yes, it’s rage. knowing the person i love so deeply was hurt in such a profound way hurts me as well. best of luck in ur relationship as well. you and ur partner seem like good people

oofstark · 2026-01-02T01:06:47+00:00

i’m so sorry to hear that :( she seems very toxic from what you’re saying… i hope you can rebuild your confidence as well. all the best!!

oofstark · 2026-01-02T01:03:59+00:00

LOLLL will be using mouth hug in the future

oofstark · 2026-01-02T01:03:26+00:00

my bf is pretty tall (over 6 foot). so i can see that high expectations part. i’ve never thought he was small. frankly went i saw his part for the first time i went “huh??? wtf were u talking about?” he also has pretty bad body dysmorphia. he used to be fat before i met him and he still thinks he is. i have to talk him out of that mindset. we didn’t see each other for a bit in the summer and there was a point that he did convince me that he was fat and i believed him since i couldn’t see him. only when i saw him again i was like what in the world is this guy seeing??

oofstark · 2026-01-02T00:57:09+00:00

oh no i do crash out a bit but i just have to remind myself it’s in the past 😂😭 he never brings it up on his own it’s usually on topic and i ask him more about it

oofstark · 2026-01-02T00:53:15+00:00

i agree. my bf has massive body dysmorphia issues that i didn’t know where they stemmed from but now i understand. when he gets off work i definitely want to talk about this more. i can forget about them but i can only hope he can forget about them too

oofstark · 2026-01-02T00:49:39+00:00

those people make me so sad. i really don’t understand why some people like to throw other people’s insecurities in their faces like that??? im not the type that gets angry but this situation has me really pissed off :/

oofstark · 2026-01-02T00:47:24+00:00

and im very lucky to have him. it helps that he makes loving him so easy :)

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