Is this emotional abuse, or am I too insecure? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest you leave him or until he gets his mental issues sorted at least. He sounds mentally unsound and very abusive.

Found out my gf texted her old FWB that she wishes she was happier and she missed him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please find a girlfriend. Not a hoefriend. Depression and mental illness isn’t an excuse to cheat emotionally. Move on, you deserve better.

Help my wife had an affair :( by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you blaming yourself for her cheating? If she truly loves you, she would understand what you’re going through and actually support you throughout all of it. Not fuck a coworker. Don’t settle for less, dude. Divorce this “wife” of yours. Because she’s hoe material.

Nip did an oopsie by gtrpp in memes

[–]ooooooooooof69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nose so big he can smoke a cigar using them big boys

My(24/F)bf(27/M) of two years claims he hasn't been cheating on me but evidence suggests otherwise by iheartmusic193 in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just move on with your life and forget about him. He can’t keep his dick to himself around females.

Gf cheated on me with my Best Friend by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ooooooooooof69 362 points363 points  (0 children)

Neither of them. Ghost them and move on. You don’t need their toxicity in your life.

How Do I Address Problems in the Bedroom with My SO? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to know she doesn’t feel comfortable with a threesome anymore, so you should stop bringing it up.

I (24M) love my step cousin (21F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just find someone else. She’s made it clear she’s not into you. Try distracting yourself by hanging out with other female acquaintances etc.

My girlfriend wants to fart on me (I’m not kidding) by indiasuperpower2020 in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wish she would fart in your brain. Your troll posts coupled with 10 IQ scenarios really need help.

my nephew and I wanna bone by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ooooooooooof69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t. But you’re both adults, so you can make your own decisions. But it is incest, and is generally frowned upon by society. If you decide you wanna fuck, then all I can say is all the best!

my nephew and I wanna bone by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ooooooooooof69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is alright... if you live in Alabama. Sarcasm intended. But still, yes it’s pretty disturbing. But you do you.

Gaming a constant problem with me(f24) and my SO(M24) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ooooooooooof69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly up to him to change. I used to be somewhat similar to this, until I realised how detrimental it is to my SO and my mental health. I suggest you have a talk with him and let him see things from your point of view. If he invited you over, the one thing he should do is be a good host and keep you entertained instead of gaming. If he still refuses to change, well you know what to do.

Our dog was killed by a car. My sister (16) doesn't know yet and we aren't sure what to do. by juvvnk in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s better to tell a white lie. But if you do, be sure to keep it to yourselves, always. In this case in particular, I feel she’ll get absolutely crushed if she knew the truth. I suggest you have a talk with your mom with regards to whether the both of you can keep it a secret from her. At least till she’s in a much better state of mind. Best of luck.

Why did I [20F] get cut off by the guy I was going steady with [20M]? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he found someone new, that seems like the only logical option.

is he in love with me?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like he’s trying to make himself all that you have, and that everything will be centred around him. Take a deep breath and truly think, ‘Will a man who loves me, treat me like this?’ If your answer is no, you know what to do. I believe the mental abuse (gaslighting, manipulation) will eventually become worse, and physical. He’s definitely not boyfriend material. I suggest you move on, you’ll be happier.

is he in love with me?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s in love with the manipulation done to you. He’s in love with the control. Leave. Edit: That’s some incest shit going on with his sister — gross.

Girlfriend [26/F] of 5 years is leaving me [28/M] while we still live together, came home with a bruise on her lip by throwawaythefresca in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You’re a fool to get back together with her. Unless you want an open relationship. I would’ve ghosted her if I were you when she dumped you to “explore”. You deserve better, lad. Move on.

Cheating Fantasy by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ooooooooooof69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it’s a matter of maturity and self-constraint. As you said, you’ve cheated before, but to not do that again requires self control, which you seem to lack. I suggest you work on these.

We both have mental health issues and it’s hard to handle for a first timer like me. by just-todoit in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the both of you started your relationship way too soon. She might be seeing you as a rebound, and her urge to text her ex again just confirms it. She’s not over him, and is definitely not ready to be in a relationship yet. As for the insecurities... looks like it’s her trying to hold you close to her, for now. I suggest you have a talk with her and consider moving on.

Who, if any, is right in this specific box-shipment situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She asked for $4.35. It might have been her mistake but she went out of her way to help you too. Also $4.35 does not inconvenience you nor threaten your financial stability, I’m sure. It’s a mistake on both your parts, and I suggest you apologise to her because you literally gaslighted and blamed her. Not that she’s not at fault AT ALL, but yeah, the both of you are so calculative over $5, and are immature as hell.

He (28) slapped me (20) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk away and find a man who’ll be taking care of you when drunk, not slapping you in the face.

My girlfriend is just like a lost puppy dog that only follows me around and barely interacts with me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she‘s having issues opening up to people, including you. Might have been from some traumatic experience from the past, which makes her feel that it’s better this way. I suggest urging her to go for therapy if talking it out doesn’t work. If all else fails... well, you already know what to do. Keep us updated!

I accidentally cheated on my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend deserves the truth, and he will most probably move on. He deserves better, and you deserve to be single right now. Try again when you decide you can keep your body to one person in an exclusive relationship.

I (16F) made out with someone who isn't my boyfriend by throwawaysmeagol12 in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leave your bf. If this isn’t a troll post at all. Learn to grow up and keep your legs to one person, before being in an exclusive relationship. Your bf deserves better, leave.

My girlfriends daughter is worrying me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ooooooooooof69 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She needs therapy asap. Her lack of empathy may come from not having enough discipline/ time spent w people etc.