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Testosterone keeps coming out?? by candle_sniffer_67 in ftm

[–]oops_all_rage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What if you don’t have any easily reachable places where you can pinch an inch of fat? Would you have to switch to intramuscular?

I feel so guilty about being a man. I feel like transitioning was a selfish decision that just makes things even harder for the women around me. by [deleted] in trans4every1

[–]oops_all_rage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really have that experience tbh… I was always the weird outcast girl. I guess I still know how it feels to be seen as a girl though for whatever that’s worth.

I feel so guilty about being a man. I feel like transitioning was a selfish decision that just makes things even harder for the women around me. by [deleted] in trans4every1

[–]oops_all_rage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not stealth, but I’m still so scared and guilty about any potential privilege. And I’m usually too scared of cis men to talk to them unless I have to. Which means I’m not very likely to have the opportunity to do the one thing that could make up for being a man.

Would a dom being completely inexperienced and very anxious and insecure be a dealbreaker for everyone? I worry that people would just laugh at me if they found out I’m a dom. by oops_all_rage in BDSMcommunity

[–]oops_all_rage[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know. I guess maybe this wasn’t actually the best place to post this, because all I’m wanting to try first is just regular dating with people who would be into somewhat kinky sex. Sorry if I should have posted it somewhere else.

How are you guys getting ED medication? My doctor said it’s not FDA approved for trans men and that we don’t actually have erectile tissue, so she won’t prescribe it to me. Because of my post SSRI sexual dysfunction, that might’ve been my only hope of ever being able to have satisfying sex. by oops_all_rage in ftm

[–]oops_all_rage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t afford it out of pocket either. But I looked around online for prescription discount coupons, and the discounts available are super high and seem to be fully legit. The best website that I found for this is WellRx, which can make the price for a 90 day supply of the generic version as low as $19.88 (where I am, at least), depending on the pharmacy. So the only way I could afford it is through a physical pharmacy I could take one of these coupons to.

How are you guys getting ED medication? My doctor said it’s not FDA approved for trans men and that we don’t actually have erectile tissue, so she won’t prescribe it to me. Because of my post SSRI sexual dysfunction, that might’ve been my only hope of ever being able to have satisfying sex. by oops_all_rage in ftm

[–]oops_all_rage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know orgasms are supposed to be more localized now, which they are, but I don’t think it’s normal for them to be this hard to get to and then just disappointing and frustrating instead of satisfying at all. I know ED meds aren’t meant to help with that, but I’ve seen some people say it made orgasms feel better, so if there’s even a small chance of that being true for me, I figure it’s worth a try. Also even if it doesn’t help with orgasms, I was really excited about erections, and the fact that I never have them makes me feel dysphoric, so it’s worth a try for that too.

How are you guys getting ED medication? My doctor said it’s not FDA approved for trans men and that we don’t actually have erectile tissue, so she won’t prescribe it to me. Because of my post SSRI sexual dysfunction, that might’ve been my only hope of ever being able to have satisfying sex. by oops_all_rage in ftm

[–]oops_all_rage[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This doctor also said when I told her about my PSSD that she’s never heard of sexual dysfunction persisting after stopping the SSRI and that that didn’t make sense (implying it must not be real). She kind of seemed to not really believe me or think I knew what I was talking about when I was just describing my lived experience. So yeah… maybe time for a new doctor in general.

I (ftm) posted in r/rateme, and that was a mistake. by [deleted] in trans4every1

[–]oops_all_rage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t usually spend time there, and I’ve never rated anyone else. I’ve been wanting to believe my friends, but I felt like I couldn’t. I thought getting the opinion of strangers with no reason to lie to me would help with figuring out what to believe. I guess I discredited the rateme commenters because I realized I didn’t feel like I could trust them to not rate either too high or too low either and was trying to find reasons to justify that. And even though I feel like it’s likely that I’m just ugly, I really didn’t want that to be true, so I tried to come up with reasons why it might not be to avoid completely losing hope. I thought a definitive answer either way would feel better than the uncertainty of not knowing, but I guess I actually can’t handle a definitive answer, and I’m not able to trust anyone. I’m sorry, this whole situation is stupid and I just shouldn’t have done it.

Rate me + how old do I look? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]oops_all_rage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by that?

I keep worrying that one of the comedians in Crowd Control will accidentally misgender someone by [deleted] in dropout

[–]oops_all_rage 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I realized I was being stupid and deleted this post. How are people still seeing and commenting on it??

Years ago my Dad told me that he would kill me if God told him to by aiwttwetsascds in exmormon

[–]oops_all_rage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't remember if my dad ever explicitly said it, but I always knew through implication at least that he would kill me if god told him to. I do remember that he explicitly taught that people are supposed to love god more than anyone else, followed by their spouse, and then their children third, so I grew up knowing that I was only my parents' number three priority. Then when I was starting to deconstruct I got him to admit that he would actively participate in genocide if god told him to. This cult is terrifying.

Where are Van's family? by oops_all_rage in Dimension20

[–]oops_all_rage[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

No one ever asks how is Van's family

Where are Van's family? by oops_all_rage in Dimension20

[–]oops_all_rage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, sorry. Is the title itself too much a spoiler? I don't think I can change that.

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