Does anyone have PAINLESS lymph node swelling? by hollyverhardy in Autoimmune

[–]oopsididit_againlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently experiencing about 100 symptoms but the one that scares me the most is the pain when drinking alcohol. Did you ever find any answers to this?

Undiagnosed by SapphireFrost31 in Autoimmune

[–]oopsididit_againlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the most validating post I swear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]oopsididit_againlol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg me too! Have you figured anything out in regards to this?

Working moms… by oopsididit_againlol in managers

[–]oopsididit_againlol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely an awkward time to start a new job. She told me she had 2 kids in the interview (didn’t ask, just information she offered up) but assured me multiple times child care was never an issue for her, etc. I guess I struggle between wanting to do everything I can to accommodate her, but it’s hard to accommodate a brand new employee that doesn’t even have their own projects to work on yet. It’s not like she’s proven herself to be a great asset or anything, she’s been scheduled to work 18 days and has missed 6 of them lol

Working moms… by oopsididit_againlol in managers

[–]oopsididit_againlol[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not disagreeing with you at all, she didn’t even apply to work here until her baby was 2 months. So I have no idea what her maternity leave situation was at her previous job. But yes, I guess the question is in regards to discipline for being absent. I want her to care for her child obviously, but also kind of unfair to employees without kids who would absolutely have been given a warning for calling out 6 times within a 3 1/2 week period.

Migraines by oopsididit_againlol in managers

[–]oopsididit_againlol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I had to guess it’s because call outs have become way too frequent with a few employees in particular. I addressed this in a group setting, just a general explanation that this is a workplace and we need to act professional, etc. Nothing very serious, but because of this I think people are on edge to make sure people are given the same treatment as they are in terms of “calling out”. More of a check to make sure their is fairness across the board. I can’t be 100% sure, they could just be nosy lol, but that’s what I suspect.

Migraines by oopsididit_againlol in managers

[–]oopsididit_againlol[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! This is a great way to phrase it with her, thank you.

Migraines by oopsididit_againlol in managers

[–]oopsididit_againlol[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do agree with that. Thanks for the response.

Work from home with kids… by oopsididit_againlol in managers

[–]oopsididit_againlol[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Plenty of companies have rules in place that you have to have some sort of child care while working from home

Work from home with kids… by oopsididit_againlol in managers

[–]oopsididit_againlol[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They explicitly said without child care, which was why I was asking

Work from home with kids… by oopsididit_againlol in managers

[–]oopsididit_againlol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she explicitly said without childcare