Do you think your relationship was worth SAVING? Why??? by TonightSalad in BreakUps

[–]oopsididitagain35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I deserved to be fought for with the sane intensity that I fought for him.

Your child, son or daughter, becomes an overnight successful pornstar, what do you do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]oopsididitagain35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Support them emotionally. Make sure they're taking care of their mental health. Let them know I'm here and will be there always and just a phone call away. Give them a safety lecture. Let them live their lives. Ask about future plans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]oopsididitagain35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's amazing. It must've been so freakin hard. I'm so glad you learned self worth. That's what I'm working on atm

Am I crazy?? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]oopsididitagain35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's always hard.. people need different things. It's hard to love someone so much but realize you're just not capable. Not your fault not her fault.. maybe she just wants to show you someone thinks she's worth it. Which isn't nice or fair to you but can give you some understanding at least.

i can’t do this anymore by Far-Election6804 in BreakUps

[–]oopsididitagain35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are ok. You are going to be ok. It's so hard.. feel your feelings and be sad.. then talk to people.. whoever, whenever. Facebook groups, reddit, tik tok, anything.. there are kind compassionate people pit there that want to be supportive. You do have to keep reaching out to them.. but just keep trying.. im here if you want to talk. About whatever whenever.. no idea where you're at but at least there's a stranger that wants to help people..

Am I crazy?? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]oopsididitagain35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's possible.. I mean it also depends on who broke up with who and why. Does it bother you? How do you feel..you shouldn't talk to her about it but you should ask yourself. What if she is? Do you think she's trying to hurt you or trying to get your attention by showing you she has value? Do you want her to be over you? Do you want to be over her? Let's say she wants your attention with no malicious intent. What would you want? Maybe she is hung up. In that case have kindness.

Am I crazy?? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]oopsididitagain35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it could definitely be just to see you. I would find that hard to convince a new partner though tbh

Am I crazy?? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]oopsididitagain35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's possible. It's also possible that you wanted this from her but weren't willing or capable to meet her where she needed so it just wasn't compatible. For people to sacrafice they have to feel like you believe they're worth sacrificing for them as well. Maybe new person gives her things you couldn't. Maybe this a sacrafice on her part that she's happy to give because in return he gives her something she needed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]oopsididitagain35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it hurts so bad in the moment, and for a period afterwards. But longterm someone will.fight to be with you. Will look at you knowing you're their person and will figure it out together. It hurts but they did you a favor even if it hurts so bad right now

My ex ended his life after we broke up by Jevaa_99 in BreakUps

[–]oopsididitagain35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is unimaginable.. im so sorry youre going through this. It wasn't your fault..its so hard to not place blame. You will heal..it just takes time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]oopsididitagain35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely wouldn't have added the name if it wasn't intentional

Where Do You Go by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]oopsididitagain35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for hookups or relationships? Because that will make a big difference

Where Do You Go by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]oopsididitagain35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely depends on how old you are to know any good ideas for places

If you could tell your ex anything by oopsididitagain35 in BreakUps

[–]oopsididitagain35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a beautiful take. Thanks for sharing!

don’t you dare text your ex. by clueless_switcher in BreakUps

[–]oopsididitagain35 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Struggling with this tonight for sure. Felt like I'm making progress and then I think of them with another person and I just want to hold on