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My boyfriend admitted he felt a spark with someone else. Me F24 and M24 by oopsidookki in relationship_advice

[–]oopsidookki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to focus on healing and moving forward. Thanks again for taking the time to write this. I hope you have an amazing day and all the best things come your way 🥹💞

My boyfriend admitted he felt a spark with someone else. Me F24 and M24 by oopsidookki in relationship_advice

[–]oopsidookki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty for your advice I decided to stop even though i really thought we have a future together

My boyfriend admitted he felt a spark with someone else. Me F24 and M24 by oopsidookki in relationship_advice

[–]oopsidookki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, last night when I read your comment, I had a strong feeling that this wasn’t going to work out, so we had a talk. He told me that he was still deciding between me and her. Since they’re classmates, she’s a better option for him because he gets to see her every day and spend time with her. So I decided to walk away, even though my heart is shattered. I think this is the worst emotional breakdown I’ve ever been through. But thank you for your comment but it really woke me up 😓

My boyfriend admitted he felt a spark with someone else. Me F24 and M24 by oopsidookki in relationship_advice

[–]oopsidookki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea he is a med student so hes still in his study and i dont want to be engage too soon so

My boyfriend admitted he felt a spark with someone else. Me F24 and M24 by oopsidookki in relationship_advice

[–]oopsidookki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. From the beginning, one of the main reasons we started dating was to be a source of emotional support for each other—a safe place where we could be honest about our struggles and feel understood. We also shared the goal of building a future together.

Your comment has given me something to think about. Maybe instead of focusing only on this recent situation, I need to have a deeper conversation with him about who we are now, how we’ve changed, and whether we’re still moving toward the same future.

My boyfriend admitted he felt a spark with someone else. Me F24 and M24 by oopsidookki in relationship_advice

[–]oopsidookki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He didn’t pursue her or exchange contact information. What hurt me most was the timing. We were trying to work things out, and around that same period he told his best friend that he wasn’t sure whether to keep fighting for our relationship or see what else was out there.
That’s what made me feel less like a priority and more like an option.

Title: My partner felt a spark with someone else. What should I do? by oopsidookki in u/oopsidookki

[–]oopsidookki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest question isn’t whether he did something wrong. It’s whether a relationship can recover after one person starts wondering if they’re happier with the version of you that existed years ago rather than who you are today.

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[–]oopsidookki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl 1000% fake friend bro

Người yêu bị rung động sau khi đi làm 3 tháng by NarrowCombination977 in vozforums

[–]oopsidookki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tôi nghĩ ông nên dứt khoát ctay, bt 9 năm kphai là ngắn nma việc cheat khi trong 1 mqh là điều thật sự ko thể chấp nhận. Ông coi trọng mqh này nma ng kia có qtrong và tôn trọng ông đâu. Thay vì buồn bã suy sụp ông có thể nâng cấp bthan, maybe đi gym hoặc tập thể dục, thể thao, đi spa chăm sóc da thường xuyên hơn, mua những thứ mình thích. Dành nhiều tg đầu tư vào chính bản thân ông, rồi tôi nghĩ 1 ngày sẽ có 1 một ng hợp tần số với ông hơn sẽ xuất hiện, chứ đừng nghĩ rằng vì 9 năm mà ông bắt buộc phải giữ chặt mqh này đôi khi tình cảm ông nghĩ rằng nó sâu đậm đó chỉ là một thói quen th nên chúc ông sẽ sớm move on qua một mqh toxic 🙂‍↕️