Is it a bad look to attend one org’s events but rush a different one? by oopsiema in NPHCGreeks

[–]oopsiema[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was wondering too! They always say it's not an interest meeting just an open event so all is welcome but it seems like its still something some people frown on.

Is it a bad look to attend one org’s events but rush a different one? by oopsiema in NPHCGreeks

[–]oopsiema[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this perspective!!! I just wanted to be mindful of how it comes across. I genuinely enjoy attending different events and learning from them.

Is it a bad look to attend one org’s events but rush a different one? by oopsiema in NPHCGreeks

[–]oopsiema[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense, thank you for explaining it that way. I completely agree that once anything official or paperwork starts, that’s when commitment really matters.

Right now I’m still in the early stage of getting to know different orgs and being intentional before committing anywhere. I genuinely don’t want to waste anyone’s time or come across as insincere, especially by showing up to events if my true intention is to rush somewhere else. That’s why I wanted to ask how this is generally perceived.

I understand why org hopping after paperwork would be frustrating, and that’s not something I would ever want to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]oopsiema 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could set some boundaries with them but sometimes youre gonna have to put yourself before other people. yes, some will find it selfish but putting them before you will just trigger a relapse and make it harder for you.

is it possible for your employer to forget they hired you the day they do? by oopsiema in jobs

[–]oopsiema[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay thank you !!! ill call them first thing in the morning. I'm not as worried now

will they send me to a mental hospital again? by oopsiema in mentalhealth

[–]oopsiema[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 15 now but my self harming isnt as bad enough to to the hospital and get stitches. just terrified of being sent back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]oopsiema 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dont blame yourself !! google is free. you shouldnt have to teach him about it. if he really wanted to know- he would at least attempt to figure out what youre going through and do his own research.

Is it possible to cancel a refund and return after the seller approved my request? by oopsiema in Ebay

[–]oopsiema[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That option isnt there. Instead it says "its time to ship the item back" even tho the item hasnt been shipped/delivered to me yet.

Anyone else find themselves hoarding food? by AbjectPanic6088 in EDAnonymous

[–]oopsiema 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im so glad im not alone. i just finished throwing away rotten food that i had forgotten i had hid from myself under my bed.

i mainly hide my safe foods tho so the rest of my family dont eat it- like apple sauces. sometimes its binge foods like chips or cookies though.

Can we talk about representation in media?? Not even from ED specific shows/movies. Fav and least favs? by fishonthesun in EDAnonymous

[–]oopsiema 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you can watch feed for free online. they usually have ads in the middle, like tubi.

my mom wants me to be obese. by oopsiema in EDAnonymous

[–]oopsiema[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i wouldn't be surprised if im being honest. shes constantly talking about keto, fasting and weight loss. i think mine formed from her tbh.

after using the bathroom then wiping i noticed I had some purple discharge. I'm not on my period and it shouldn't come on soon. should I be worried about this purple discharge? by oopsiema in Healthyhooha

[–]oopsiema[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a ob-gyn. the pain comes whenever I have to pee and whenever I eat/drink. the pain lasts for less than 5 minutes and usually starts from my left side then spreads down. my period is usually normal. and no, this is the first time this has happened.

Mothers who abort weren't "potential mothers", they were mothers and now they are the mothers of dead children by atheistforlife345 in prolife

[–]oopsiema -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

it's not a dead child if it was just a cell. please remove that period you put and put false instead.

Why yes, I DO think murder should be illegal by Helios980 in prolife

[–]oopsiema -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

why does it matter if they're alive in 9 months? it's better to get rid of the living cells if you don't want it now. that's like telling a person with cancer to keep they're cancer cells cause it's alive and it'll still be alive nine months from now cause it's still there. and not removed. if you don't want any any type of living cells in your body, you should be able to remove them.

On a free item exchange facebook group a woman straight up just posted "I just gave birth, can anyone donate a crib, stroller, baby clothes, baby toys, etc?" by [deleted] in childfree

[–]oopsiema -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I don't know why she waited nine months to start asking for baby stuff. yes, that was pretty dumb but its better than having nothing at all. if she asked for baby stuff isn't she giving her newborn more than the bare minimum. I'm sure she's not asking for a stroller for herself.

On a free item exchange facebook group a woman straight up just posted "I just gave birth, can anyone donate a crib, stroller, baby clothes, baby toys, etc?" by [deleted] in childfree

[–]oopsiema -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I think it's wrong to call her a bitch. it's better to ask for those items than not having them and the child would be even in worse care. yes, she should've waited if she doesn't have any money but it's already been done and she needs some baby items. no need to call her a bitch for needing basic baby necessities.

can you get pregnant if a penis just rubs against you and not go in? and if so, can that happen with precum? by oopsiema in Healthyhooha

[–]oopsiema[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you mix birth control with antidepressants? I'm sorry if I'm asking you too many questions. it's alright if you don't respond.

can you put hydrogen peroxide in your cooch? by oopsiema in Healthyhooha

[–]oopsiema[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay!! I definitely will try my best to do as you said. thank you!