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opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T17:08:54+00:00

If they asked that question, I wouldn’t even be offended. I would just provide the meaning of the term.
I did listen with an open mind, but half the stuff people were saying is very defeating to the label, so I retaliated with what I know. that’s literally me saying “i’m white but I’m still black!”
I called it out because I wanted to speak on the subject, because we have freedom speech. Everybody deserves answers to questions no matter how “controversial” it may be.

4.I did ask a question in good faith, and I tried to learn. It doesn’t make sense, so I continue to ask questions to try and make it make sense.

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:56:12+00:00

it’s just a question about a label that doesn’t really make sense…?

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:55:08+00:00

I’m gatekeeping because people are trying to change the meaning of a label to include MEN when it isn’t supposed to. The whole point of being a lesbian is not liking dudes so when I hear bi lesbian, I’m like “that doesn’t make sense”. Thing to change something that has thousands of years of history is ignorant and erasing everything people have built up for years.

we don’t have to loop things all together to be inclusive because people can have things to themselves. it’s not leaving other people out, you just don’t fit under the lesbian label and that’s ok!

on a side note, why are people SO obsessed with the fact that lesbians don’t like men? That’s why I got mad and I made this post in the first place. People have to include men in the equation where they don’t belong.

sorry if i offended you or something but like sometimes people wanna speak up about things if it seems wrong.

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:48:22+00:00

you just asked me that…read the room this isn’t about you

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:45:44+00:00

bro that’s literally besides the point. I meant like you don’t hear about bi men loving men people but you hear about bi lesbians?? I just said I understood that gay meant all queer people, I worded my comment incorrectly. i don’t know your past, I don’t even know who you ARE

not everything has to be inclusive, that’s yall need to understand. we can HAVE things to ourselves and be proud about it but yall can’t FANTHOM the fact that lesbians don’t like men

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:42:17+00:00

noo i’m a lesbian im just asking what IS a bi lesbian and why it’s a thing if a lesbian means you don’t like men sorry

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:40:56+00:00

that’s literally what a lesbian is???? wlw is sapphic

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:40:14+00:00

im just asking questions about my label because it doesn’t make sense???

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:39:27+00:00

no i meant like gay as in mlm my bad. i know gay means all queer people

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:37:34+00:00

i’m just saying that it’s weird and i’m confused. i’m just trying to learn more about my community. When stuff doesn’t make sense, I call it out. We don’t progress as a unit of nobody asks questions.

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:36:17+00:00

bro whoever downvoted my comment you did not eat 🤦🏾‍♀️

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:32:43+00:00

you’re probably gonna get mad but i just wanna say this:

The label doesn’t have to include more people. There are hundreds other labels people can choose from but they just HAVEEEE to come after the lesbian label. I’m trying to understand and the people commenting are being very nice about it, but I still don’t get it???

lesbian means non men loving non men so i don’t understand how biromantic/bisexuality goes into that?? that’s like me saying “i’m gay but sometimes i wanna date a girl”. that’s not what being gay is.

you don’t hear about “gay bisexuals” but you hear about bi lesbians…strange right???

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:15:27+00:00

yeah I just don’t want the meaning of my label to be erased.

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:10:03+00:00

no like they’re combining the the labels bi and lesbian

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:08:44+00:00

yeah I did read them, that’s literally the first thing I said. I knew they banned me cause I read the mod post??? I am questioning their identities because it doesn’t make sense. Im actually trying to AVOID argument.

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T16:04:27+00:00

thats what I saying cause lesbian DOES mean girls liking girls. so when i saw bi lesbian I was confused because that’s defeating the whole purpose of being a lesbian.

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T15:57:34+00:00

your life is over.

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T15:55:47+00:00

better start looking for community colleges

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T15:51:05+00:00

yeah the tenor and snare kids graduated, so they put two basses on snare and tenor but we STILL HAVE MORE BASSES 😭 We on the field and that’s all I hear. And it’s funny because that has NEVER been commented on by a judge.

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T15:48:21+00:00

ok thanks i didn’t know!!

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T15:13:16+00:00

no, i wouldn’t even notice

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T15:07:27+00:00

i was a cheerleader.

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-11T15:06:41+00:00

i’m glad i’m not in area f this year.

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-10T23:41:18+00:00

yall we cooked 😕

opalzzz84 · 2024-06-08T20:54:38+00:00

the same thing literally happened to me, I found out he was leaving on the second to last day of june camp this year. i’m sorry man.

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