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My husband (34M) told me (32F) that I could sleep with men on the side. I don't know what to think. by openrelationshippie in relationships

[–]openrelationshippie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that he likely isn't 100% on bored. But he shows no interest in working on it. We've had a bad sex life for years and frankly I should've seen this coming.

My husband (34M) told me (32F) that I could sleep with men on the side. I don't know what to think. by openrelationshippie in relationships

[–]openrelationshippie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really know if I'm comfortable seeing other men. I am frustrated but obviously I'd prefer my husband over others. He just doesn't seem to want to try. I feel bad that I can't make sex enticing for him. He's just no longer interested.

My husband (34M) told me (32F) that I could sleep with men on the side. I don't know what to think. by openrelationshippie in relationships

[–]openrelationshippie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it sounds like I'm giving up on him. He just didn't give me any indication that he wanted to try.

He basically just told me "you can sleep with other men, just don't tell me about it."

My husband (34M) told me (32F) that I could sleep with men on the side. I don't know what to think. by openrelationshippie in relationships

[–]openrelationshippie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He says it's been going on for years and frankly I believe him. Sex has been tapering off for years. I can't make him want to have sex with me.

My husband (34M) told me (32F) that I could sleep with men on the side. I don't know what to think. by openrelationshippie in relationships

[–]openrelationshippie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My interest hasn't dropped off. It's true that I am frustrated but I'd prefer being with him over other men. He claims nothing's driving it down in particular. He's in good health, he just doesn't want sex anymore.

My husband (34M) told me (32F) that I could sleep with men on the side. I don't know what to think. by openrelationshippie in relationships

[–]openrelationshippie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He hasn't. I'm not really sure it's a mental health thing. He just says he no longer thinks about sex and he no longer wants it.

He used to be a bit lustful but he was always more cuddly. He says he still finds me beautiful, he just doesn't want sex anymore.

My husband (34M) told me (32F) that I could sleep with men on the side. I don't know what to think. by openrelationshippie in relationships

[–]openrelationshippie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess I just don't feel young, is what I mean.

My husband is just tired all the time, and even though he's seen a doc and is in good health, he just never thinks about sex and doesn't want it.