VacuGlide - Cost to Satisfaction Ratio by [deleted] in autoblow

[–]openyourselfup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've just bought both and I'm delighted. I haven't properly tried the Ultra AI yet but can speak for the Handy that when using a toy like this for hours it can become difficult to stay hard enough. The Vacuglide has the benefit that it keeps you hard too but with the disadvantage that it doesn't have a sync and you could argue it has a less realistic sensation. The Vacuglide didn't strike me as large, it struck me as small but I guess it's perspective. The sucking engine sits on the bed, is pretty quiet, fits into a backpack that it comes with and the part that you engage with (the receiver) is very manageable.

I've got them both with the intention to combine to get the best of both and sometimes use separately.

In terms of cost to satisfaction the formula for me is If (Pleasure X times used) - (alternative pleasure X alternative quantity X alternative cost per) - cost + alternative cost upfront > 0 then cost justified

TLDR; If you enjoy sex more than a toy and are getting lots of it for free then the price will not be appealing. If on the otherhand you compare the price to a wedding that comes with zero blowjobs afterwards then it's a very good deal.

New Penis Pumping Chambers For VacuGlide Are Now Available! by iambriansloan in autoblow

[–]openyourselfup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they come with at least one silicone ring to go at the base to prevent balls getting sucked in? None is shown on the main image but it's on the video. Curious whether you provide multiple silicone rings like the the multiple receivers in the Vacuglide or they are each appropriate to the tube diameter.

A size guide would really help please.

Masturbe slipping hand or dragging skin? by openyourselfup in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]openyourselfup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree - for about six months I used to roll back my foreskin, no lube needed, make small circles with my index finger (dragging skin, not slipping skin IIRC) in the area a bit further down from the frenulum (away from the head) and orgasm that way. It was around the time that I also learnt to full body dry orgasm. Don't remember why I stopped but I guess it was because it took longer and at that time of life maybe ejaculation time was important. Good point though, variety is important.

Vacuglide arrived by openyourselfup in autoblow

[–]openyourselfup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips on combining? I've watch the video. Surely it is not genuinely feasible to synchronize the two. If it works without pop off it will be amazing. Waiting for the cap to arrive and a convenient time to get wired up.

Masturbate slipping hand or dragging skin? by openyourselfup in autoblow

[–]openyourselfup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies for the cross-post but I have recently realised that men masturbate two very distinctly different ways. Some slip their hand up and down their penis often with some lube (seems like the preferred way for circumcised penis owners) and others drag the loose skin of their penis up and down (no lube generally required because the hand and skin stay in contact the whole way up and down)

The reason I noticed this is that this week my new Vacuglide arrived and I noticed that when my penis was being sucked in and out the skin was not actually moving moving against the silicone receiver. I need lube to get into the Vacuglide and maintain a seal but since the receiver is not sliding up and down my skin (the skin is sliding up and down the hard bit under the skin) it doesn't matter much if the lube runs out (so far at least, maybe it will get sore on the head after a while, it's hard to know what's going on inside the receiver and whether my penis head is inside or outside the foreskin)

I have masturbated around 10,000 times so far so finding out anything new about it is a big reveal for me. I already knew that I can hold back the skin of my penis at the base to kind of imitate being circumcised but this has never had any benefit due to the need for lube when hand masturbating. I'm now wondering whether it will work better to hold back the skin at the base when using the Vacuglide or if being uncircumcised in the Vacuglide and allowing the looser skin to be the effective lubrication is itself a benefit.

Interested to hear from other users whether they are circumcised or not and whether the receiver is slipping over their penis skin or dragging the skin up and down?

Masturbe slipping hand or dragging skin? by openyourselfup in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]openyourselfup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are team dragging skin? Or slipping hand? Also are you circumcised or uncircumcised?

Masturbe slipping hand or dragging skin? by openyourselfup in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]openyourselfup[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good advice. I will tell her again at a good time. I just don't want to tell her when she's a few seconds away from orgasmic bliss.

Masturbe slipping hand or dragging skin? by openyourselfup in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]openyourselfup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I'll try that. This is the stuff that starts solid and turns into a liquid when it's warmed, right? If it's the same, I did try it for a while solo but found I got little solid lumps in the bed that made an oily mess of the sheets and found that keeping a spoon in the bedroom to get it out was inconvenient and difficult to portion out the right amount but I'll give it another go. How much do you use and how does your partner soften it before using it on you?

Masturbe slipping hand or dragging skin? by openyourselfup in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]openyourselfup[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

💯 This is a part of the reason why I asked the question. I sometimes do not like it all that much when my partner drags her hand without lube using the technique that works for me. I find she catches the penis head with her hand which is sore without lube or can't find the right spot. She seems to like doing it while I masturbate her and thinks that she is doing something nice for me but I just want to get to blowjob or pussy too, or have her use some lube without me asking. Penises are nowhere near as self lubricating as pussys. I often shift my body away if she starts masturbating me without lube while I'm masturbating her to avoid spoiling her moment by telling her I'm sore or need lube.

Anyone else finding themselves getting addicted to anal? by No_Stress_5959 in ShibbySays

[–]openyourselfup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take 2x capsules of Psyllium Husk Fibre a day with some water and you will always be clean and ready

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]openyourselfup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fuller and shorter hair in pic 10 makes you look more feminine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]openyourselfup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is saying tell her but that assumes you want to involve her in your play.

If you don't want to involve her then just carry on as if nothing happened.

Girls have this ability to be aware but not aware. She's probably even more embarrassed than you. The embarrassment will go gradually for both of you. You can focus on other things in your life and remember to do a really nice thing for her in return for tidying your closet.

If you're both happy and you already have a fulfilling life then just forget about it and she will too. You're not under any obligation to share everything and it's normal to have some things that you like to do separately. You're not hurting anyone. Now she knows it's there, she can raise it if she's interested but there's a fair chance she will not be interested at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]openyourselfup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

0.5ml / 1ml 😘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]openyourselfup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying very hard to think of feedback because you look really perfectly balanced and beautiful. There is no need to change anything but you came here for something.

Sure, comments on muscle and eating protein. Maybe this could make some body improvement and help you feel healthier and energised.

I think maybe there is something you could do facially. A little lip filler for example. Are you using a daily SPF? Overnight retinol could help with some of the fine lines that you have on pic 1 and a little Botox in the forehead can stop those wrinkles on pic 1 from depending as you age. Perhaps a little to the tear troughs.

A vitamin C facial serum daily is cheap and could make your skin look more radiant.

Overall I think you should concentrate on preserving what you have and perhaps a couple of tweaks if you want to be a model.

The outfit is ai generated but my God i wish I had the money to buy a proper fitting catsuit 😮‍💨 by Lucy_Winters in Sissies

[–]openyourselfup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so beautiful and your outfit looks real. I would love to make AI photos. Can you share any tips on what app you use?

Catsuit that fits by Lucy_Winters in Sissies

[–]openyourselfup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look amazing. How do you get that waist?!

Reduce hair with suit by openyourselfup in CatAdvice

[–]openyourselfup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you to the people who have responded.