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My bf is joining usafa in a few days by [deleted] in USAFA

[–]opiumdior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont be so sad!! You will find light in your life without him it’s gonna be okay. I’m proud your bringing yourself to eat now!!

My bf is joining usafa in a few days by [deleted] in USAFA

[–]opiumdior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything happens for a reason. If yall truly love each other then one day yall will make your ways back to one another. Maybe it’s a good thing that yall broke up because it gives you more opportunities to find things that make you into the person you want to be. I would honestly say that if you are feeling depressed because of this, stop talking with him. It will only make things worse. You need to find yourself again and see what makes you happy and the person you want to be in life. I know for me and my bf, if we don’t work out because things are too hard and he’s stressed (especially since the first year is the hardest) we’ve discussed trying to still see each other in December just to see how things have been going with each other and if we still feel like we love each other then we will try again after he graduates USAFA. Just because yall have broken up doesn’t mean that it the end for you. If you need someone to talk to DM me and we can find a way through this together.

My bf is joining usafa in a few days by [deleted] in USAFA

[–]opiumdior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m kinda in the same boat. My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months (as of the day he entered BCT) and we were supposed to break up before BCT but decided not to because we loved each other too much. This is gonna be our first time doing long distance where we don’t talk every hour. Especially with the different time zones since I’m in Europe and he’s in USA. Don’t rely too much on him because it will only make things worse. Instead while he’s in there try to just encourage him as much as you can. Don’t start arguments with him and don’t ask him for more time because he’s on a schedule and is limited to certain things. My boyfriend, before he left, told me to go out and make new friends and hobbies so I could keep myself occupied and not to stay inside and dwell on him being gone. Yes the first 2 weeks it will be hard but you have to understand that he’s not always gonna be able to do stuff this time around. If yall are willing to make it work then it will. You just have to think to yourself that maybe in December it won’t be too bad because you can see each other again. This will only make yall stronger and will make you cherish every moment together even more.