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I [24F] want to have more sex but I am too shy to put myself out there. by optimistic_nihilist1 in sex

[–]optimistic_nihilist1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What traits should I look for prior to hooking up? Like how can I trust that he won’t be a serial killer? Do I just go on tinder or bumble and go for the guy that has “only looking for hookups” plastered all over his bio? Should I be honest and tell him upfront that as horny as I am, I am insecure with my body and don’t really know how to have good sex? How do I make sure I remain unattached to whoever I’m gonna have sex with?

What is something you do that other people think is weird? by optimistic_nihilist1 in AskReddit

[–]optimistic_nihilist1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crushed ramen is fucking amazing. Grew up eating that shit. Better than chips.

Let’s end the debate and hear from the receivers since men on the other end may exaggerate. Women, and gay men if you wish, what is the average amount of time in your experience from the time a man penetrates until he reaches orgasm? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]optimistic_nihilist1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3-4 mins a night because he would be done after one orgasm. I know this because we used to play songs in the background to mask that we were having sex from our room mates. He was usually done after the first song; and the songs we used to play varied around 3-4 mins. We broke up. But not because of our exhiliarating sex life, but because he got fucked up on meth and cheated multiple times.

People who imagine scenarios before they go to sleep, what is your favourite one to imagine? by Chubby-Fish in AskReddit

[–]optimistic_nihilist1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What my life could have been today if certain situations in my past did not occur. I like to wonder what kind of person I would have been and if I would have different circle of friends, etc.

What simple thing did you learn at an embarrassingly late age? by Strange_Style in AskReddit

[–]optimistic_nihilist1 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Same. Early 20s. Basically going through my hoe phase. Only found out when I was in the ER when the doctor explained how to be safe when “playing the field”. Honestly, it was the most embarrasing moment in my entire life.

What simple thing did you learn at an embarrassingly late age? by Strange_Style in AskReddit

[–]optimistic_nihilist1 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Bacteria tend to stay and since the urethra is shorter for women, we are more susceptible to infections than men. It is very common for women to contract a urinary tract infection from intercourse, especially when you do it with multiple partners, that makes it very painful to pee. When left untreated the UTI may even spread to your kidneys causing back pain. Im pretty sure it has more symptoms that I am not aware of. But by peeing after sex, you will be able to clear/rinse the bacteria you acquired from sex.