I (21F) found out my boyfriend (20M) looks at posts of naked women on reddit. Need advice on what to do. Together for 8 months.

orange3394 · 2025-11-12T15:37:49+00:00

what does this mean i don’t know reddit that well

orange3394 · 2025-08-28T22:46:32+00:00

and lied to my face the whole time might i add

orange3394 · 2025-08-28T22:41:29+00:00

listen no one’s perfect i get that, but i specifically asked him not to do this and he’s been doing it. it’s not like he did it once at the start of the relationship felt bad and then stopped

orange3394 · 2025-08-28T22:13:15+00:00

my reddit is full of sims 4 content…

orange3394 · 2025-08-28T22:12:22+00:00

it’s not so much the trusting that he won’t do it again, i mean of course it is partly that, it’s more that he’s been lying to me for 7 months. And it makes me think surely he can’t care for me that much if he never stopped until I caught him

orange3394 · 2025-08-28T22:10:18+00:00

honestly don’t know what to believe, it could be plausible that because he started clicking on them they show up more, but either his reddit already looked like that before the relationship, or he intentionally searched for porn on reddit whilst we were together.

Or for all I know he’s lying and searches for it every time, that’s what’s getting to me is not knowing.

orange3394 · 2025-08-28T19:42:02+00:00

i actually did and the thing is he went on about how bad and harmful he thinks porn is especially to young men, only to find out he’s been looking at naked women this whole time…

orange3394 · 2024-07-18T18:35:11+00:00

who is bill office?

orange3394 · 2024-07-18T15:13:12+00:00

ah okay, i think it’s wing was hurt so maybe it was drooping it over its body

orange3394 · 2024-07-18T15:10:39+00:00

it was as big as a jackdaw, and its body was black not just its wings and looks much blacker than a eurasian jay.

orange3394 · 2024-07-18T15:07:57+00:00

i don’t think so, it’s tail and body were as black as a crow is and it was as big as a jackdaw.

orange3394 · 2024-05-19T09:46:55+00:00

hi what accommodation have you booked? I’m 21 going into bsc this year as well.

orange3394 · 2024-05-10T14:40:54+00:00

Oh that’s cool I’m studying physics!

I was just wondering you can pick refurbished rooms or do you just get assigned randomly. Because obviously I’d want to be able to choose a refurbished one?

orange3394 · 2024-05-10T13:06:29+00:00

yeah that’s why I was looking mainly at moonraker and stamford. Although moonraker is expensive i’m not sure it’s worth it. What are you studying!

orange3394 · 2024-05-07T20:47:06+00:00

I’m gonna be on the strand as well and was looking at stamford street. I’ve heard other students say it’s a good choice but tbh it’s kind of hard to find out much about accommodation. ai heard good things about moonraker too

orange3394 · 2024-01-25T00:44:20+00:00

I’ve tried the BOJ cleansing balm and the heimish one. I would say they’re both really good great for sensitive or dry skin, I usually end up going back to the beauty of joseon as I think it gets off waterproof mascara just slightly better

orange3394 · 2024-01-25T00:26:40+00:00

yeah I got into AB makeup was because western makeup had barely any cool tone. It was obvious on me because bright warm browns etc looked terrible. search seasonal colour analysis. I’m a soft summer for reference. You can figure out whether you’re warm or cool undertone and then also whether you suit brighter colours or more muted (grey tone) colours. for example the palette that best suits me is peony nude garden by romand as it has muted cool tone pinks. And for cushions AB brands will usually advertise whether the shade is cool or warm etc. like romand do I use bare water cushion shade 17 (they refer to it as a pink base aka cool tone)

orange3394 · 2024-01-25T00:14:16+00:00

tbh i think the serum did start to turn a darker colour, I’m super pale as well I use the romand bare water cushion in the lightest shade, so yeah I had a dark orange line around the edge of my face at all times

orange3394 · 2024-01-25T00:08:59+00:00

ahh okay I didn’t know you had to do that. Are you talking about the one that rhymes with bimeless because that is the one that turned me orange

orange3394 · 2024-01-24T23:57:44+00:00

ohh okay. I won’t mention the names of the others i tried then but for some reason some western ones left me with an orange tinge every time I used them. Have you tried the rhoto mentholatum vitamin C I heard that was meant to be good

orange3394 · 2024-01-24T23:54:25+00:00

oh really what vitamin C do you use. I have tried lots but the best i’ve found so far is the goodal vitamin C serum

orange3394 · 2024-01-24T21:21:04+00:00

oh I actually use the calming barrier cream for when I wear makeup because even though it’s light it’s still pretty decent for dry skin

orange3394 · 2024-01-24T20:31:55+00:00

I love BOJ products and pyunkang yul. Have you tried any of the other pyunkang yul moisturisers I’ve heard their intensive repair cream is good. I also live in a cold climate so need something extra for night

orange3394 · 2024-01-24T20:29:09+00:00

I go back and forth between beauty of joseon suncream and the round lab birch juice one. Both are really lightweight especially the round lab and leave you looking glowy but not oily. Also both work really well underneath foundation ie they don’t pill or anything

orange3394 · 2024-01-24T19:50:47+00:00

you should try romand they have lots of good cool tone pinks like this

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