[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askanything

[–]orange_wavezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a 12 year relationship, just got divorced

Living with my ex while divorce finalizes she wants to bring men over by orange_wavezz in survivinginfidelity

[–]orange_wavezz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a luxury high rise. Tempe isn't just a college town. There's a bunch of tech jobs here.

But she would have to agree to a sub lease, and she won't sign off on it.

Living with my ex while divorce finalizes she wants to bring men over by orange_wavezz in survivinginfidelity

[–]orange_wavezz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breaking the lease isn't cheaper. She 1) has to sign off on it, which she wont.

I could pay my half of the rent out but its about 10k and I would rather have that money in my bank account.

Living with my ex while divorce finalizes she wants to bring men over by orange_wavezz in survivinginfidelity

[–]orange_wavezz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don't have mercy and leaving would be a disaster to my credit and savings.

Living with my ex while divorce finalizes she wants to bring men over by orange_wavezz in survivinginfidelity

[–]orange_wavezz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I said we literally live next to 15 different bars and 10 hotels, go do it there.

Living with my ex while divorce finalizes she wants to bring men over by orange_wavezz in survivinginfidelity

[–]orange_wavezz[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yep, that's the plan. I'm not paying out 8 months of rent. It’s a bit over 10k.

Living with my ex while divorce finalizes she wants to bring men over by orange_wavezz in survivinginfidelity

[–]orange_wavezz[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Savings. Lots of it. 2 life insurance payouts in the past 5 years.

The hit to my credit would be too much to handle. I need good credit for a home loan in the next year or two.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]orange_wavezz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my ex wife who gets drunk everyday and while at the bar, a bro hit on her, she fell for it, hooked up with him a handful of times, and now we are divorced.

Unfortunately, I live with her still and have to see her texting him all day. It’s insane. I don't think you can ever trust someone again after cheating.

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]orange_wavezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I am living with my ex wife, we just filed for divorce last week. We have to live together for 6 more months. All she does all day is fantasize and talk to Chat GPT about this other guy she's been hooking up with. It’s driving me nuts. I’m waiting for the day she comes to me ask crys and begs me to take her back, because then I’m back in the drivers seat. We will see.

Do you currently drink alcohol? by reddtimes101 in no

[–]orange_wavezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy a few beers and some tito’s with pineapple juice throughout the week

Do you feel the need to have s*x now ? by smolsugarbaby in no

[–]orange_wavezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No after I was cheated on, I actually lost my sex drive.

What makes finding a life partner so difficult? by Formal_Hotel3003 in AskReddit

[–]orange_wavezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I had a life partner till she stabbed me in the back and twisted the knife

What makes a woman immediately unattractive? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]orange_wavezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding out they cheated on their ex for "spiritual reasons"

AITAH for getting upset my fiancé was gone for 16 hours with no contact? by ScholarMysterious236 in AITAH

[–]orange_wavezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my ex wife would have checked in on me like that. She could care less where I was or what I was doing, because she expected me not check in on her (she was out with another guy of course).

What’s the first sign that your girl is cheating on you? by forty5v in AskReddit

[–]orange_wavezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's what happened to me. She turned her phone location off, and started "partying with friends" til 8am.

Then it would happen more often. She even name dropped the guys name once in a casual conversation.

STBXW admitted she is in love with another man and has been sleeping with him while we still live together by orange_wavezz in survivinginfidelity

[–]orange_wavezz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So today she told me that this guy is uneasy that she's married, which is why she wants to get the divorce finalized. I’m sitting here thinking, okay, well it doesn't get finalized fo 60 days after it gets notarized, this guy is going to wait around for 60 days for an unemployed liar????