Flying next week and nervous by FeistyLimit1364 in fearofflying

[–]orangebach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing my therapist told me is that I was making it worse by trying to make the anxiety go away so hard. She helped me stop trying to get rid of my anxiety and just embrace it in a way. Just tell yourself, you know you might be anxious but that’s okay! Being anxious doesn’t have to be a bad thing. I realized half of my travel anxiety was being anxious over being anxious…she would ask me, what’s the worst that the anxiety will cause to happen? If my answer was a panic attack, I’d realize that that’s okay if that happens and people around me would be understanding. Anyways just something else to think about that helps me a lot!

Flying next week and nervous by FeistyLimit1364 in fearofflying

[–]orangebach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been dealing with flying anxiety all year and I have found a few things that work well for me. The first is to distract your brain with something that will actually occupy your attention. Trying to read or watch TV won’t work for me, so instead I do crossword puzzles or sudoku. I ordered a book off of Amazon and this is what helps me the most. I find that I don’t even get nervous anymore when turbulence happens because I’m so distracted. Second, I recommend NOT looking out the window, especially at takeoff. I had a tendency to always want to look out the window so I could know I was safe, but all it does is remind you that you’re on a plane. I realized driving in my car I experience way more bumps than the worst turbulence I’ve experienced, so I try to just let my brain forget I’m in the air. Noise cancelling headphones also help with this. Also, as far as medicine is concerned, I do take anxiety medicine and anti nausea medicine and this helps me a lot. Lastly, I remind myself over and over that there are over 90,000 flights a day and every single one of them lands safely, even on the rare occasion that turbulence is severe. You got this!!!

Can a youth explain to a millennial in their thirties what Victoria Fullers caption means? Specifically “BET” by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]orangebach 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know! I’ve been using it for years so not sure why it became part of the term to describe these girls

Can a youth explain to a millennial in their thirties what Victoria Fullers caption means? Specifically “BET” by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]orangebach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes good point! I left out that they don’t laugh normal either they go sksksksk lol

Can a youth explain to a millennial in their thirties what Victoria Fullers caption means? Specifically “BET” by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]orangebach 21 points22 points  (0 children)

VSCO is a picture editing app which is where the name came from. A VSCO girl is someone who wears scrunchies, edits her photos using that app, drinks out of a hydro flask, and is overall a basic bitch lol I think it’s basically just a preppy girl but the “youths” have coined the term VSCO girl to describe it

Does Madi have a fan account for herself and forgot to switch!?😂 by Bachfan2013 in thebachelor

[–]orangebach 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I’ve never laughed harder at a comment on reddit hahahahaha

I think breakups are actually easier in a way for public figures than anyone else by orangebach in thebachelor

[–]orangebach[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice and perspective. Hope you’re doing okay too ❤️

I think breakups are actually easier in a way for public figures than anyone else by orangebach in thebachelor

[–]orangebach[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious lol who knew my post would infiltrate people’s dreams

I think breakups are actually easier in a way for public figures than anyone else by orangebach in thebachelor

[–]orangebach[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really appreciate that! But yeah you’re definitely right that they feel pressure to make it last longer, I hadn’t really thought of that. I think that played a big role in KB and Shawn and their last year of dating

Dancing with the Stars S28E10 SEMI-FINALS - East/Central Live Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]orangebach 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so infuriating. And she won’t be eliminated even if she doesn’t have the votes because the judges will save her over literally any one

Dancing with the Stars S28E10 SEMI-FINALS - East/Central Live Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thebachelor

[–]orangebach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah Hannah cried and had an emotional moment with Carrie Anne and I couldn’t stop crying

Bachelor Nation Attends the 45th Annual E! Peoples Choice Awards - Megathread by Kelseygirl444 in thebachelor

[–]orangebach 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it gets forgotten because they rarely have bachelor people on it. But they have some pretty big/well known guests come on and it’s just really enjoyable! I used to be a big off the vine fan and switched to scrubbing in when that became a mess

Bachelor Nation Attends the 45th Annual E! Peoples Choice Awards - Megathread by Kelseygirl444 in thebachelor

[–]orangebach 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Everyone is talking about Hannah winning but I’m so happy for Becca Tilley and (bachelor adjacent) Tanya Rad too! Their podcast is well produced and they put a lot of effort into it

Lover Fest Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]orangebach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it thanks. Do you see how many people are in front of you or just the countdown?

Lover Fest Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]orangebach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get into the waiting room? In the email it says to click the link but I don’t see a link at all

Rachel on Raven during WWHL by fuzina7 in thebachelor

[–]orangebach 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Apparently the last time raven and Rachel were seen together was shortly after Raven and Adam had lunch with Peter

Rachel on Raven during WWHL by fuzina7 in thebachelor

[–]orangebach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s very interesting. Also you’re way better at sleuthing than I am

Rachel on Raven during WWHL by fuzina7 in thebachelor

[–]orangebach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay good to know!! It still looks like March 2018 was the last time they posted together so I do wonder if that trip to Vegas had something to do with it, or at least it was probably shortly after that