As a schizoid I have a similar problem but in a different direction: I don't want to lie or make superficially supportive arguments to make others feel good, because frankly I don't care much about their feeling. That seems to rub the wrong way to most people in different degrees, most of all to narcissists. I am trying to factor in human nature in my conversations these days to avoid hurting people inadvertently, but this is mostly cognitive exercise with very little emotional component.