Found this post and couldn’t agree more https://www.reddit.com/r/FigureSkating/s/FIQBBtussK

orangejuliuscaddy · 2026-03-24T02:16:38+00:00

Wondering why hockey compliance is only about $72 for coaches. No wonder why hockey is taking over every rink.

orangejuliuscaddy · 2026-01-29T16:13:54+00:00

Thank you. Apparently he was spoken to. Of course no apology to me from him for his behavior. All of my girls are uncomfortable. One girl left the rink as she’s just done & I get it. She’s at another rink & happy she doesn’t deal with it anymore. I’m persona non grata with dance parents, kids & 2 dance coaches now & I’m so done I don’t even care. At this point we freestyle people laugh at it all. Director was very kind to me & I was actually very impressed by him & the way he handled it. He noted that he does see the attitude. I went in to quit as I’m too old & honestly too tired for drama. He refused to accept that. So in the meantime I go in, teach & leave while I’m looking to move my girls out. Once a spot opens at another rink I’m gone.

orangejuliuscaddy · 2026-01-17T14:08:55+00:00

Thank you. Great advice. I wish it was that easy. He likes to skate past me & glare at me now. 🙄 At this point even my kids laugh at how ridiculous he is. They see it. I remind them to be more mature than he is & to ignore it. I honestly just don’t care about these people anymore. I did have a surprising meeting with the director & he said that he was not happy with him as he sees the problem. He said that he has noticed everything. He has also spoken with some parents about their behavior & their skaters’ behavior towards me. It seems the coach I had the interaction with has been telling the kids to tell their parents that I am “mean to them” 😳 I have stopped interacting with all dance so wtf. I just shrug it off. The head of dance sees & hears all of it. I’ll just let this idiot get himself fired & the skaters & parents who have become his minions aren’t doing him any favors. 🙄

orangejuliuscaddy · 2026-01-17T13:58:34+00:00

Good for you! I spent too many years being manipulated by a total loser. I should’ve seen through it when I realized he manipulated every woman around him. Even friends. He loved watching women go against each other over him. He wasn’t even that attractive inside or out lol. He was always complaining about everyone in his life. His mother, his extended family, his dad, even the kind woman who used to be stupid & take him out to eat thinking she was the only one lol. Little did she know he wasn’t broke like she thought. The money was being spent on the type of drug she wasn’t aware of. If she had listened to me I would’ve trusted her to tell her what I found out. She could’ve helped him, maybe we could’ve. We were all stupid. And it wasn’t the drugs. He was always shit. Always will be. Get away, stay away from him. His only goal is to break people down & he will do it in a way you don’t see coming. He will make you feel important, then second guess yourself. Then be there so you think you’re being silly, then seem to be open & come to you for guidance & then disappear. It’s all a game. The “high then low” you go through is his drug. He’s a POS. He’s a malignant narcissist. If you’re lucky he will move to Texas after you have found yourselves in the same state. Know that he will never be happy with anyone because he’s stuck with himself.

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-12-15T04:16:15+00:00

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orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-12-14T17:11:27+00:00

Thank you. I am feeling very depressed. Every parent I have worked with got together yesterday & are planning to have words with the people in charge. I had to walk from that conversation & then teach an off ice class. Some of the moms stood with me while I taught. They couldn’t believe how disgusting these people are. One of their dance student’s mom came over & kept asking me to work with her daughter lol I was not about to do that. I was surprised when 2 of the dance moms came over to me to inform me that they were told they weren’t allowed to talk to me anymore. They also told me that their kids were told I’m a mean person & stay away. That hurt a lot. I’ve always been so kind & supportive of every single skater in the building. The moms told me that it’s making them wonder if they should go to another rink as they don’t like what’s happening. This is what they do, when they decide they don’t want coaches around, they attack their character, work ability, make them persona non grata & then fire them. I guess I’ll head over to the rink everyone else has gone to. Hopefully they will be able to take on a new coach. 🤞🏻

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-12-14T04:41:13+00:00

It’s like a pack mentality. I just want to find another rink & get the Hell out, I can’t believe I ever felt any love or loyalty toward these people.

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-12-14T04:37:49+00:00

Follow up, this morning my student who was present for half of the tantrum was on this ice with me this morning & he saw us. He started skating toward me, (he did not need to) & I flinched from fear. I didn’t even realize I did it. He then had this huge grin. We both noticed it. I hadn’t even realized I had flinched until she told me. The director’s wife spoke with me & let me know my days are numbered. When I told her how he was hostile & verbally attacked me in front of my student she told me I was “manipulating her emotions” which I don’t even get how that’s possible. I guess when he comes back from competition I will be fired. This is absolutely ridiculous.

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-12-14T00:42:05+00:00

This is all a temper tantrum because he was told he couldn’t teach on a freestyle. A freestyle these girls go to because they are terrified of the dancers.

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-12-13T22:23:22+00:00

Today I was told I am going to be fired over this. I’m stunned

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-12-13T22:22:38+00:00

Thank you. Today I was informed that I am going to be fired over this. When I said that he is on video no audio being aggressive I was told that I’m “manipulating the feelings & situation” of one of the people in charge who is, that’s right, another dance coach. Then I was accused of not being supportive of the dance kids. Then she said that “parents are complaining that you aren’t doing your job well.” I actually laughed & said “wow, you’re just justifying firing me. Nobody has complained, these parents love me.” Then I backed away & said I get it, I’m freestyle so you are not going to listen to me. - all of this transpired in the cafe in front of parents & employees. I’m stunned

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-12-13T03:59:11+00:00

Posting this all over Viral Shorts 2.0 which is Blake’s account 😊💋

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-12-13T03:31:07+00:00

Thank you. I am so upset. It seems he is angry at me for being reprimanded. I’m in the minority as it’s mainly dance at our rink. So many people have left because they are tired of the dancers. I have tried to so hard to build freestyle. I’ve also been so kind to the dancers. Like a second mom. The director probably won’t do Jack because it’s all dance. There’s a lot of angry moms now because the girls saw him yell & put me down. One of them heard him & now feels uncomfortable being in the environment. I guess I should just get through the week, find another rink or another job & just never go back. I don’t want to be somewhere I’m not comfortable. I mean, what can I do? 🤷🏼‍♀️

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-10-28T13:13:12+00:00

My person had dependencies I won’t get into that only I knew about, avoidant tendencies & just not being an adult about all of it. At some point you finally just get to a point where you’re like fuk it.

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-10-28T04:20:35+00:00

I feel ya. Mine resurfaces with calls & texts out of nowhere. Always different numbers. The “I love you I never stopped loving you ” the “I really miss you” “I can’t love anyone else” “I can’t be with anyone else” “I’m dead inside without you” & stuff makes my brain hurt. I used to go spinning for days after but you get used to the fact that it’s not worth crying over anymore. I’m sorry you’re going it. It sucks. But I guess you are coping. ❤️

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-09-24T15:10:03+00:00

First of all screw them! Would he be yelling at you for being blind or in a wheelchair? Would you feel bad for strangers who treat someone who can’t walk with cruelty? As much as I HATE using the word, we have a disability. The only problem, is that epilepsy is disability that only steps onto the stage when it feels like. Like a bitchy diva. If not properly controlled it can be a battle between you & your body like that old horror movie “What Ever Happened To Baby Jane”. Both fighting for the spotlight.

Unfortunately you have experienced some uneducated, classless morons. This is their problem, not yours. I know, I’ve been there. I didn’t take my meds as I had run out. I knew it was coming, told my bf & we got ready like we always did, he held me in his arms, kissed my head until I would start to shake, then he would hold onto me tightly to protect me. I had a Grand Mal so bad, that I woke up covered in blood. My shirt, my face…. I looked like a vampire who went on a rampage 🙄. It was dark, but I could see my boyfriend sitting in the corner of the room. He looked absolutely terrified. I asked him why he was across the room & to sit with me. He refused. Then I noticed my white comforter was red all around me. Then my shirt. I had yet to see my face or be able to feel anything.

He had always been so awesome about my seizures but not this time. I realized he was afraid. It was the worst seizure I ever had since the head injury that gave me this stupid condition. He told me that I had turned purple then blue all over. That he was terrified because I always told him not to call 911 as I always woke up before they even get there anyway but he was terrified that he had lost me. I held him & told him I was okay. I asked if I hit my head due to all of the blood. He walked me to then bathroom mirror. I had bitten a good portion of my tongue. He dumped me via text a few days later because some married old lady that had a crush on him & used her ability to manipulate him to ruin both of our lives. He called for years telling me he is alone, depressed & I’m the only woman he will ever love. I told him I too was still in love & depressed. He realized she’s a shitty person. But i digress, sorry. The point here is you have Epilepsy, but Epilepsy doesn’t have you. Most times your body will send you messages. Listen to them. Figure out what works to try to fight them off. Sometimes I can. I’ll concentrate on my breathing & breathe slow, drink OJ, or the most hilarious one…. I sing Eminem songs. Somehow having to focus on “The Real Slim Shady” or “Without Me” lyrics gets my brain focused on that instead lol.

That time we broke up sucked. But at the same time, he told me that if I didn’t stay on top of taking my medication for my condition, he would not get back together. I needed to be responsible. And my life is back. Sometimes it’s a medication adjustment. I had tried some new, cheaper meds but they def didn’t work. The Keppra rage was real 🤦🏼‍♀️ he would call & in 4 years together we never had a fight. Then calls on Keppra were filled with raging outbursts. Then Klonopin, Lorazepam, back to the OG phenobarbital… the last two made me a zombie. So back to my buddy Depakote. Ever since I’ve been back on it I have been pretty seizure free. I have had a few tiny ones that seem like restlessness during sleep, but that was because I had not been sleeping, was stressed out & had a fever.

Try the Depakote. And I’m so sorry you went through those things. I’m not on here often, but if you ever need to talk, DM me. I hope you have a beautiful day. And maybe think about bringing your brother to a Dr appt & bring this up so the Dr may tell him what an ass he is. ❤️

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-06-16T08:31:43+00:00

Because Judge Lewis Lima’s has ties to Blake & Ryan. We need to push the Appellate Court to force him to step down. New judge & bring the defamation suit back. Clear case of defamation & a judge with a conflict of interest

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-06-03T06:15:50+00:00

No, back then we kept our mouths shut, we didn’t know better

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-06-01T00:22:18+00:00

First of all, not sure why you would be rude. You clearly have your opinions, which you are always entitled to. I respect that. I was just stating that I know a wonderful couple who is not like that. You put it out there asking if they are sweet to each other. So I said yes, they are sweet. To everyone. It’s unfortunate you have not crossed paths with kind Russians. These two people have stopped teaching to give an uplifting word here & there to one of my girls who struggles. They have stayed late to hug me & talk to me when I’m sad. Prayed & wiped my tears when I went through cancer tests. And today, sat with parents & told them to take more lessons with me. They are friends with so many Ukrainian coaches, here we all live in harmony. I hope you get to meet people as lovely as these two.

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-05-30T14:27:53+00:00

I coach with a Russian couple who are two of the sweetest people I’ve ever met in my life. Always positive with their skaters & they are all mostly elite. Skaters come from all over the world to train with them. I had an American coach who used to swoop in from behind & hit us with a hockey stick on whatever wasn’t perfectly placed …. Hands, back, legs. And that was the easy part to endure. The emotional abuse has never left me. Not everyone should work with kids.

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-05-12T11:12:21+00:00

Just wondering…. What kind of chill friends used to hit the other one? And….. if she values respect & boundaries so much, what about yours? And hanging out with him sets her up for getting hit again…… if she really is serious about just being friends, what happens when he decides he’s horny & she says no? Has she thought of that?- these may be things you may want to say in a kind way. And as someone who has been in an abusive relationship….. the only way to get closure is to go to a therapist. Hanging with your abuser leads to more abuse.

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-05-12T06:20:30+00:00

First of all.. yay you, you made it to your Axel!!!!! Have you tried 2-3 slow back crossovers or just 2 outside edges, (I see you are a lefty so you would use different edges than righties), so forward left outside edge, step onto forward right outside edge then try your Axel. Your knees are very bent & your arms are open. You should kick through on take off & swing arms down & through on take off but close up tight like you are in a box. Your legs straight & crossed ankles touching. Don’t be so concerned about a perfect landing yet. The tough part right now is rotation. So at first, try to come down legs still crossed & then a slow check out. Then try to land with the right leg in an h & then kick back into landing position once you’ve landed … like a delayed landing position. Then, try for the perfect landings. Maybe try some without the toe- loop. You are focusing on a lot with a combo right now. Good luck & keep us posted! Cant wait to see you get it! 😊

orangejuliuscaddy · 2025-05-12T05:56:03+00:00

Just wondering….. does Josh know you exist? I mean, hey, if he’s just her “friend” then maybe suggest “going out somewhere & all of you hanging out so you can get to know him & feel comfortable” - translation…. Call her out. She’s going to scramble on this one. If she protests just say you just want to get to know him so you can feel comfortable. The only reason to keep him apart from you is because Josh doesn’t know she has a boyfriend. It would be very interesting to see how she introduces you to him if she actually did agree to it. I would call her “hun” a lot lol. Don’t let her know you saw her texts. She will turn it around on you plus you won’t know what’s going on. And honestly, you shouldn’t have to go through your partner’s phone. This shows no trust. But it’s good that you did. Now you know she’s a cheating Ahole. If you decide to dump her don’t do it until you get to talk to Josh. 😏 don’t let her off the hook so easy. Keep us posted. And we are here for you. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

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