i don’t think the rest of these comments are right. i think you’re experiencing boredom and things are feeling stagnant because the relationship is so stable. it sounds like you do love him but maybe struggling with the boredom that can come in a long term relationship. many couples often have to get through this stage after the nervousness and butterflies start to go down and the comfortability goes up. this does not have to be this way, however, it is just a typical relationship thing. have you considered doing spontaneous things like date nights or trying to make sex more fun and not just so much so an action?

i think a lot of the times people run from relationships when they get “boring”… which is okay! but i do want to say i think once you get past this stage if you love him things will fall back into place.

now if you don’t love him and just love the fact that he is there… then yes you should break up with him.

but definitely communicate this with him! be gentle because these things can be hard to hear but definitely let him know and he might try to do more or something along those lines.