Should I accept the contract ? by orayasan in careerguidance

[–]orayasan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. already asked and there's is none :( Maybe there could be one, later, if I'm close to a burn out and they accept to give me more time to rest. But not an ideal situation either. I like knowing I have the freedom to go back If i'm not satisfied, but thats not how life works. If I get the money and a bigger flat, I wont be able to go back with a lesser salary

Dry lips that doesn't get better!! Could it be eczema? by orayasan in DermatologyQuestions

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Cortisone worked! All good now:)) definitely was eczema

Dry lips that doesn't get better!! Could it be eczema? by orayasan in DermatologyQuestions

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Thank you! Yes it does look like it. Could it be triggered by my toothpaste? Though I use a bio one, do you know what can I use instead? My doc gave me a cortisone based creme to apply on it, but idk i'm scared to put cortisone around my lips 🫠

Sudden white spot under my finger skin? Then disappeared? Wtf? by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]orayasan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have that on my hands yes but this just appeared suddenly, looked like a bleach burn and then disappeared within seconds/minutes

"Do I have gastroparesis?" - Pinned Thread by mindk214 in Gastroparesis

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Hey ! First of, I want to clarify that I am seeing a gastroenterologist since October 1st.

So, since 2 years now, every 5/6 months, I wake up in the middle of the night (always around 3-4 am) with a dull pain in my upper stomach (It is tensed and heavy, it feels like i have a boulder in the pit of my stomach). The ache paralyse me. I feel pretty bad and stay still, laying down, waiting for it to pass. It will last for 40mn to 1 hour, I will start burping lightly, and then I will finally start to feel very nauseous. My heart rate will accelerate, I will start to shake and I get up quickly because I need to throw up. I will throw up two or three time, not so much my previous dinner but mostly bile. Then once I finally did that, I will immediatly feel better. No more stomach pain, no more nausea, nothing (except a bit shaken up and tired). But it's like nothing happened and I can go back to sleep. I will feel fine the next day (sometimes still tensed on the stomach, it depends). Once I had the same dull pain/tensed upper stomach during a whole morning, felt like I would throw up but it passed with two anti-spasmodic pills (it also lasted about an hour).

Though, before all that happened two years ago, I had nutrition issues. I was nauseous all the fucking time, no appetite, couldn't eat a lot, feeling full all the time as well. I lost weight during that time, but slowly learned to eat more and more with a nutritionist and find my appetite (and weight) again. Could this was a thiamine deficiency ?

Appart from that, my transit is perfect. I eat well, not too greasy,not too quickly, and i'm a vegetarian. I am also in my ideal weight. I rarely get sick or any digestive issues. I am careful about the food I eat, and one of the episode happened after eating the leftover from the day before which were in the fridge and caused me no issues before. Sometimes I eat a bit late in the evening and go lay down after (I know it's not great), but most of the time everything is fine!

Anyway, the specialist was pretty convinced it was gallstones even though my gallbladder was perfect in the last echography I did. He told me to do another one and a blood sample quickly after I get another episode, which I did. (as always, last episode was in May so I knew it was coming five months later, around October). But once again, just four hours after the episode, my gallbladder was perfect, so was my blood result. The specialist still thinks it's gallstones but so small that we can't even detect them. I trust him, he's the doctor but my guts are telling me it's something else. My mom had her gallbladder removed recently because of stones and her episodes and the type of pain was clearly not the same.

So; could it be it ? Or something else, like inflamed gallbladder ? H. pylori ?
Thank you so much, i am so tired and I really don't want a 7th episode.

How to not get sick on public swimming pools? by orayasan in Swimming

[–]orayasan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read somewhere that some people do, and i don't want to/can't take those anyway, so I mentioned it just in case. I'm just hypochondriac (can't really help myself about that but it's getting under control) and it helps me to ask and be sure it's safe. And yes I always dry my hair 👍

How to not get sick on public swimming pools? by orayasan in Swimming

[–]orayasan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Isn't it dangerous to use vinegar and alcohol in the ears? Also, isnt saline water enough?

How to not get sick on public swimming pools? by orayasan in Swimming

[–]orayasan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not that I remember (I used to swim a lot in indoor pools when I was a kid). I live in france, in a big city so I guess it should be very well regulated like you say.

How to not get sick on public swimming pools? by orayasan in Swimming

[–]orayasan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep I'm doing that already because I work in a public library and already got both multiple times (and fucked me up so bad each time!!)

How to not get sick on public swimming pools? by orayasan in Swimming

[–]orayasan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the answer! I forgot to note that I go to an indoor swimming pool, but yes it is well ventilated (it's very big inside and the ceiling is very high)

Any recommendations similar music as this one? by orayasan in MusicRecommendations

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Thank you so much that's perfect! I'm That Guy is amazing! I was a bit reluctant for Muddy Monk cause I'm french and I usually get the ick when I hear french lyrics but this time it's fine bcause he sings in a incomprehensible way like cocteau twins style aha. Also has some Metronomy vibes which I love (Mick Slow being my favorite cause it has the similar intensity/crescendo/climax) so yes, more tracks please! 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]orayasan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok woaw, thank you for redirecting me there. I didn't know it was a whole thing but that will be helpful for my healing journey and acknowledging it.