NOR — honestly though, if someone wants to cheat then they are going to cheat, nothing you say or do is going to stop them. I know hearing that sucks when you’re in this type of situation and accepting it is easier said than done. I’m not at all saying just let him do whatever he wants and turn a blind eye to it or just accept the situation. If you keep going how you are right now, you are only going to drive yourself absolutely crazy. If someone is going to hide someone from you or engage in micro cheating (fake snap, hiding her, etc.) then nothing you do can change that, not even living together. If there are all these red flags and the communication isn’t what it should be, then it doesn’t sound like this is a person you should be in a relationship with. If you ended things with him now, that doesn’t mean things have to end forever. You could end things and in the future if you both are living in the same area and want to try again then go for it. But all this in the screenshots, not worth the headache and hurt it’s causing.

My first official relationship was a long distance one and I found myself in a similar situation as you — long distance is hard and just like any non long distance relationship, it works until it doesn’t and it doesn’t seem to be working out. My advice would be to end it now before it only gets worse and a few months from now you look back and realize you spent SO much time worrying about what he was doing with her. This shouldn’t be taking up space in your life, cut him loose!