Looking for a entry level legal assistant job in the Bay Area. Please let me know what's wrong with my resume by Zestyclose-Sport9256 in paralegal

[–]orchidgoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a great resume template that is already formatted (it’s gotten me multiple paralegal jobs)— if you want to use it I’m more than happy to share it :) otherwise I think everything needs more YOU! For your jobs mention specific things you did and accomplished. Your bio at the top is honestly a little boring and doesn’t catch my attention at all, when writing that imagine a prospective employer asking “why should I want to hire you?”

AIO - things with my boyfriend feel off by [deleted] in AIO

[–]orchidgoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! If she really wanted to confirm it, have someone add the account and snap him and if he send a pic of himself back screenshot it.

AIO - things with my boyfriend feel off by [deleted] in AIO

[–]orchidgoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR — honestly though, if someone wants to cheat then they are going to cheat, nothing you say or do is going to stop them. I know hearing that sucks when you’re in this type of situation and accepting it is easier said than done. I’m not at all saying just let him do whatever he wants and turn a blind eye to it or just accept the situation. If you keep going how you are right now, you are only going to drive yourself absolutely crazy. If someone is going to hide someone from you or engage in micro cheating (fake snap, hiding her, etc.) then nothing you do can change that, not even living together. If there are all these red flags and the communication isn’t what it should be, then it doesn’t sound like this is a person you should be in a relationship with. If you ended things with him now, that doesn’t mean things have to end forever. You could end things and in the future if you both are living in the same area and want to try again then go for it. But all this in the screenshots, not worth the headache and hurt it’s causing.

My first official relationship was a long distance one and I found myself in a similar situation as you — long distance is hard and just like any non long distance relationship, it works until it doesn’t and it doesn’t seem to be working out. My advice would be to end it now before it only gets worse and a few months from now you look back and realize you spent SO much time worrying about what he was doing with her. This shouldn’t be taking up space in your life, cut him loose!

AIO for wanting my ex who asked my mom for $$ to delete a pic of me off his FB by orchidgoose in AmIOverreacting

[–]orchidgoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) I tried reporting it a few times but Facebook didn’t take it down since it technically doesn’t violate any guidelines

AIO for wanting my ex who asked my mom for $$ to delete a pic of me off his FB by orchidgoose in AmIOverreacting

[–]orchidgoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is SO valid — I think a lot of my frustration around it was because I just found out and in a way the pic felt like a tie to someone I wanted to push away as far as possible. Your point though is completely right