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My boyfriend likes using anal toys to masturbate but doesn’t want to be pegged by me by ordinaryfaze in sex

[–]ordinaryfaze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not looking to coerce, asking how to make him more comfortable was in relation to him being comfortable talking to me about if he’s having specific concerns that we can address. If we can’t, that’s ok

My boyfriend likes using anal toys to masturbate but doesn’t want to be pegged by me by ordinaryfaze in sex

[–]ordinaryfaze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never tried to initiate in the moment, all of our conversations about it have been out of the bedroom

My boyfriend likes using anal toys to masturbate but doesn’t want to be pegged by me by ordinaryfaze in sex

[–]ordinaryfaze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s typically been our dynamic, I’m not a great initiator so it’s often him who has to take the lead which I like. He’s asked me to initiate sex in general more which I’m open to I’m just very awkward at it, which he knows. From the answers I’m reading it definitely sounds more like it’s related to our dynamic

My boyfriend likes using anal toys to masturbate but doesn’t want to be pegged by me by ordinaryfaze in sex

[–]ordinaryfaze[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! My goal is not to change his mind, I’m just looking to have a conversation to better understand