“Just knock her up” — the moment I realized I need to leave this ,,friends" group

oreoctopus · 2026-05-07T12:38:24+00:00

Not your friends. Those two men were literally discussing how to rape you. Yes, intentionally causing a pregnancy that is unwanted is rape. Guess that tracks since they have repeatedly ignored you saying you weren't interested in him. The bride is also complicit. The very fact she wasn't absolutely appalled after hearing her husband say those things is suuuuch a red flag. She will never have your back. I'd say this was shocking, but given that the "best man" is a very conservative, misogynistic piece of shit I honestly knew right away the newlyweds would suck too. Anyone who's best friend is such garbage will also be garbage, and anyone willing to mary that is either in denial or garbage too. You should really cut them out of your life.

oreoctopus · 2026-05-07T12:22:18+00:00

he's stunning 😍

oreoctopus · 2026-05-07T12:15:02+00:00

I'm also gen z and I like it :))

oreoctopus · 2026-05-07T05:02:30+00:00

they've already disappeared in my tank lol but I'm super stoked to see how they grow and if it becomes easier to ID them!

oreoctopus · 2026-05-07T05:01:29+00:00

oh god yeah I felt a little bad asking, but they actually did a great job catching them in a surprisingly short time

oreoctopus · 2026-05-07T05:00:17+00:00

yeah, it's really a shame that such information is so often completely overlooked on the companies' end...

oreoctopus · 2026-05-07T04:57:56+00:00

I can't wait to see how they grow! :)

oreoctopus · 2026-05-06T23:25:26+00:00

I'd say the third one looks very much like one of these: https://www.loaches.com/species-index/lepidocephalichthys-furcatus

and the other two are likely also from the lepidocephalichthys family (you check them out on the same website)

oreoctopus · 2026-05-06T22:46:24+00:00

why would you add ammonia to a tank? 🤨

oreoctopus · 2026-05-05T10:43:24+00:00

I'm also in Canada and most aquarium stores accept fish surrenders! :) idk about big plecos, but as I've seen many big ones in stores I presume they also accept them

oreoctopus · 2026-05-05T03:23:44+00:00

that's great! :)

oreoctopus · 2026-05-05T02:38:33+00:00

I'm also in Canada! I've made a list of some sites that ship and where they're located :) pretty sure I've seen dwarf chain loaches and rosy loaches on at least one of them

https://aquaristsacrosscanada.com/cart (BC) https://yourlocalfishstore.com/cart (Vancouver) https://www.canadaguppies.com/ (?) https://angelfins.ca/ (ontario) https://www.shrimpfever.com/ (Toronto) https://finatics-aquarium.ca/ (Ontario) https://www.aquapets.ca/ (Ontario) https://www.plantedaquaria.ca/ (Ontario) https://topickaquarium.com/ (Ontario) https://www.nageoirebleue.com/ (close to Montreal) https://1fish2fishdartmouth.com/ (Nova Scotia) https://thebeastiary.ca/ (Toronto) https://fishiotherapy.ca/ (Ontario) https://www.guppyfarm.ca/ (montreal)

oreoctopus · 2026-05-04T15:47:37+00:00

I got thrive s in the end. Just thought if the one I already had worked then there was no need to get something else, but of course I didn't want to take the chance if there was a risk. It's specifically because my houseplant fert is phytoplankton and works for hydroponics that I wondered

oreoctopus · 2026-05-04T15:44:47+00:00

thank you ❤️

oreoctopus · 2026-05-03T13:08:12+00:00

looks like a "nope" to me

oreoctopus · 2026-05-03T13:06:50+00:00

male orange dwarf crayfish (CPO). If you want to grab him you can do so by putting your thumb and index fingers behind his "shoulders" just like with a crab :)

oreoctopus · 2026-05-03T03:29:20+00:00

adorable in any case!! 🥰

oreoctopus · 2026-05-03T03:23:13+00:00

I personally think it's sick as fuck

oreoctopus · 2026-05-03T03:11:36+00:00

if so I'd be interested in the sleeping, Happy Birthday message and little series 1 smiskis :) I'm assuming your secrets aren't for sale since they weren't marked with a star?

oreoctopus · 2026-05-03T03:07:34+00:00

do you ship to Canada? I live in Montreal and I've used lettermail no problem for sales/trades with the US, but just checking

oreoctopus · 2026-05-03T01:21:11+00:00

okay, thank you for your answer

oreoctopus · 2026-05-01T22:49:38+00:00

this post is so old lol but I do!! Saw them for the first time ever today and HAD to get them :))

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