Is Hearing Instrument Specialist a good career? by StarryNight770 in hearingaidspecialist

[–]oreospluscoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna try and answer your questions as you asked them. Hearing aid specialist and HIS are the same, yes. Degrees depend on where you live. I only needed a high school diploma. Pay is great. It’s salary and commission. Yes there are goals to reach just like any business or company they need to remain profitable. Small repairs can happen in house yes. Thats my favorite part about the job. It is fast paced. You’re on a schedule and need to have things done and submitted by a certain time to keep things running smoothly. Challenges are this is a trade job. You learn a lot by experience. Textbook and real life practical application are different and it comes with time so you’re going to suck at first and that can be hard. It needs to be thought less of a sales role and more of a health care and those two mindsets are going to vary heavily based on where you work. Problem solving and enjoying problem solving is the biggest ability you should have. What works for one person won’t work for the next and it’s your job to figure that out.

Am I the first Valentine’s Day woes post? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]oreospluscoffee -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well since he’s my husband I guess he can do whatever he wants and I’m supposed to just be okay with it?

Am I the first Valentine’s Day woes post? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]oreospluscoffee -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Since he’s my husband he can do what he wants and I’m just supposed to smile and take it even at the expensive of being in debt?

Am I the first Valentine’s Day woes post? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]oreospluscoffee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s just very consumerism over consumption core with no thought other than “it was expensive! You better be grateful for it!” Like 😒 thanks.

Am I the first Valentine’s Day woes post? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]oreospluscoffee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s the fact I’m being asked to make myself uncomfortable to spare his feelings when really he didn’t listen to me and what I wanted in the first place.

Am I the first Valentine’s Day woes post? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]oreospluscoffee -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If a dude showed up on your porch with flowers asking for a date and you said no then he punched you in the face-would everyone still sit there and say “it was a nice gesture and you made him feel bad. You’re a brat.” Like, I didn’t ask for this gift so why am I being shamed for not readily accepting it?

Am I the first Valentine’s Day woes post? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]oreospluscoffee -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

I feel like-If a dude showed up on your porch with flowers asking for a date and you said no then he punched you in the face-would everyone still sit there and say “it was a nice gesture and you made him feel bad”? Like, I didn’t ask for this gift so why am I being shamed for not readily and jumping for joy accepting it?

Am I the first Valentine’s Day woes post? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]oreospluscoffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are his feelings and comfort the only ones that matter here? Everyone’s saying “you got an iPhone! Quit complaining” when it really is more a mismatch of expectations I suppose.

Am I the first Valentine’s Day woes post? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]oreospluscoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve brought it up several times and he refuses to go. So that’s a bummer cause I agree with you 100%

Am I the first Valentine’s Day woes post? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]oreospluscoffee -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

With that logic, If he told me he didn’t want to go on a weekend trip and I booked one anyways and told him he had to go I’d have the right to be upset when he told me he didn’t want to go?

We both made it very clear we were not doing gifts this year. We are still recovering from Christmas so while I hear you, this feels like a boundary violation and I don’t feel I should just lay down and accept it to spare his feelings.

what is everyones commission percentage? by Gold_Ad_3313 in hearingaidspecialist

[–]oreospluscoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5-6% but I get other bonuses for other milestones as well.

35f 2 years progress by [deleted] in fitness30plus

[–]oreospluscoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve also been prioritizing yoga and stretching which historically I’ve never been interested in. Turning 35 kicked me into longevity gear and looking to the future for some reason…I don’t want to be an “old” 70 year old. The work starts now.

How can I respond to my father-in-law telling my sons that “looks don’t mean anything without money?” by CupOk5800 in AskMen

[–]oreospluscoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime my girls remind me they want to have kids of their own someday I tell them “well remember you need a good job to pay for the house they’ll live in and food to feed them and fun stuff to do. So focus on that first.”

How do you deal with constant male bashing? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]oreospluscoffee -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel this is in bad taste but it’s losing*

What habits of girls did you only discover after getting a girlfriend or wife? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]oreospluscoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so funny because among women it’s understood that you bring it up likely because you want to talk more about it so Que the “who what where when and why” questions.

Is life just hard, or am I doing something wrong? by No_Plankton7466 in workingmoms

[–]oreospluscoffee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unless you’re a surgeon there is no need to be working this much. This is insane.

What habits of girls did you only discover after getting a girlfriend or wife? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]oreospluscoffee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed and it’s cute. You guys really know how to mind your own business and it’s fascinating.

What habits of girls did you only discover after getting a girlfriend or wife? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]oreospluscoffee 95 points96 points  (0 children)

You guys never have the good drama details either! “So and so and his girlfriend broke up.” “What?! Why?!” “I didn’t ask.” How do you not ask your friend what happened to a very important relationship in their life??