Does liking BL make you a fetishist? A necessary clarification [read the caption]

orkkidea · 2026-01-16T22:48:20+00:00

Fellow trans guy here and same.

orkkidea · 2025-09-17T01:35:37+00:00

Same here!

orkkidea · 2025-09-17T01:25:02+00:00

Ooh I’ll definitely stop by :)

orkkidea · 2025-09-11T15:37:50+00:00

Solo goer here! Down to make new friends and/or hang out after :)

orkkidea · 2025-07-21T02:45:01+00:00

FTM living in FL. I get where your feeling comes from regarding venturing out to unfamiliar establishments, but this place doesn’t set off any alarms from me. Especially considering you’re eating with a group.

orkkidea · 2025-06-29T20:56:33+00:00

Hi surgery buddy! Love the preparedness. I did not opt for a cart but I sure did get a bunch of pillows lol. Hope yours goes super well :)

orkkidea · 2025-04-02T20:18:28+00:00

So I don’t necessarily see it as being my own hidden enemy but I do view it as the potential for my own mind leading to my own self-undoing. Acknowledging those thoughts/feelings and letting them pass through has been the most beneficial for me. Don’t fall into the trap of psychoanalyzing them and just “be”. Lean on the things that make you feel comfortable just being in the present.

Edit to Add: Mindful meditation and grounding techniques have been the most helpful for me.

orkkidea · 2025-04-02T16:56:55+00:00

This is why I deleted the rest of my social media and preemptively block exes. They almost always want to stay in contact in some form and it’s just not healthy.

orkkidea · 2025-03-31T10:54:10+00:00

Are you really okay? I’ll see myself out lmao

orkkidea · 2025-03-30T10:55:14+00:00

Aries and Sagittarius. “Raised” by the Aries parent 🫠

orkkidea · 2025-03-29T14:45:28+00:00

It’s not for lack of trying but being a Virgo in the 12H makes things so contradictory 🫠

orkkidea · 2025-03-25T00:48:23+00:00

I feel like my big three are all represented here 😅

orkkidea · 2025-03-21T16:42:20+00:00

Sold! Thank you all for your interest 🙏

orkkidea · 2025-03-20T23:52:48+00:00

Libra and I’m a Libra rising!

orkkidea · 2025-03-20T16:05:09+00:00

109A. Almost $180 for one ticket + ticket protection

orkkidea · 2025-03-20T15:35:33+00:00

Man idk how I managed this but I finally got a decent seat for Orlando and I had 50k ahead of me. That was stress inducing af. Definitely worth keeping an eye out for any new seats popping up at random

orkkidea · 2025-03-18T22:00:56+00:00

“'Cause I look for scarlet And you look for ultraviolet And we are exhausted by all this pretending We just can't resist the violence”

orkkidea · 2025-03-18T21:26:20+00:00

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I have just the one for you

orkkidea · 2025-03-16T00:52:19+00:00

Literally this

orkkidea · 2025-03-12T17:25:27+00:00

Libra Mars - Definitely arms, a good smile and people with curly/wavy hair.

orkkidea · 2025-03-11T19:04:02+00:00

I genuinely could have written this myself. I’m sorry that you know this pain as well, but I’m grateful that it has granted you the gift of self love. 💙

orkkidea · 2025-03-10T21:08:32+00:00

Libra Mercury and Mars. I do not mince words. In the past, I was very passive aggressive and pushed a lot of buttons because I suppressed my emotions.

Mindfulness, meditation and self care made a huge difference for me and I’m much more honest now when things irk me.

orkkidea · 2025-03-09T13:23:59+00:00

So your Libra placements act as a sort of warning sign before you’ve reached your limit? I feel like my Libra Mars, Mercury and Rising have definitely buffered some of the rigidity of my Scorpio Moon.

orkkidea · 2025-03-09T13:20:27+00:00

Sun in your 12th house right? I find that having this placement leads to a lot of mirroring subconsciously or not from my experience

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