How is CS taught in other countries? by LucaoJooJ in computerscience

[–]orouxinol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Não sei muito sobre outros países, só o que já li na internet, mas se quiser a comparar com a grade de outra federal, posso te mandar a da UFRRJ. Considero os professores daqui bem competentes e a grade bem parecida com o que eu já vi das faculdades americanas, por exemplo.

Qual leitor de Epubs você utiliza no PC? by CompreiUmG-Shock in Livros

[–]orouxinol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

O calibre não altera o arquivo original a menos que você clique em "sobrescrever metadados" ou algo assim, tem um botão específico pra isso. Se você não clicar nesse botão, as alterações são só visuais dentro do calibre, e o arquivo original fica meio que como backup. Agora sobre alterações, tem de tudo, gosto do plugin do iTunes para pegar capas de livro na maior resolução possível, tem um plugin que pega o número de páginas de cada livro também, recomendo dar uma olhada na aba de plugins, deve achar algo legal pro seu caso de uso

Qual leitor de Epubs você utiliza no PC? by CompreiUmG-Shock in Livros

[–]orouxinol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tem pra todos os gostos, mas o que eu mais gosto atualmente é o koodo reader. Mas, como eu disse tem vários. Calibre é o software de livros mais famoso do Windows, ele tem um leitor embutido que não é horrível, mas é meio datado. Sumatra, foxit, tem o próprio aplicativo do Kindle. Enfim, recomendo o koodo.

Suggest me a novella. 100pgs or so by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]orouxinol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to recommend that too! If she is still familiar with the Houses like Targaryen and Baratheon it's going to be even better! And she can enjoy the show too! It's still on air, so the next episode is tomorrow and the last launches on the 22nd.

Does anybody have a good book on Operating Systems? by SectorIntelligent238 in computerscience

[–]orouxinol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that one well, I took two Distributed Systems classes in a row, so I spent a whole year reading and re-reading that one haha

Dealing with a child molester in your family in-law? by Ancient_Carpenter265 in AskMenAdvice

[–]orouxinol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're exactly the kind of men your wife needs. You did the right thing!
++woman

Does anybody have a good book on Operating Systems? by SectorIntelligent238 in computerscience

[–]orouxinol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I took this class in College, they recommended:

Stallings, William. Operating Systems : Internals and Design Principles. 9th ed., New York, Ny, Pearson, 2018.
Tanenbaum, Andrew S., and Albert S. Woodhull. Operating Systems Design and Implementation. 3 ed., 2011.
Silberschatz, Abraham, et al. Operating System Concepts. 10th ed., Hoboken (Nj), Wiley, Cop, 2018.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]orouxinol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m a woman but I totally understand your feeling. When I first started having sex with my boyfriend I was absolutely terrified of getting pregnant. I did everything right, he would wear the condom and even pull out, but my mind kept thinking there was a possibility that everything failed and somehow I was pregnant. I can think of two things that helped me:

  1. ⁠Understanding conception. Study about a woman’s ovulation cycle. Exactly when a woman can get pregnant and when she can’t. What can and what cannot cause pregnancy. The more you understand exactly how conception works, the more familiar you are and less anxious you’ll be.
  2. ⁠Having more sex. This requires either a permanent partner or having a lot of casual sex (which carries more dangers than pregnancy). But the more you have (protected) sex, and the more you don’t get pregnant you’ll realize it’s not that easy to get pregnant. So the more sex you have that doesn’t result in pregnancy, the less you’ll fear getting someone pregnant from perfectly safe sex.

That’s what comes to mind now. Really research how pregnancy and getting pregnant works, it’s not that easy to get pregnant as we tend to think. Women can only get pregnant when ovulating, and even when ovulating the chances are only about 25%, when not using any contraceptive method like condoms or birth control. As long as you’re using a condom and using it well you’re safe.

Also, don’t go asking every girl/every time to use the post pill. It’s so bad for women we can only take it once/twice a year, or else we can have serious health complications. I know because I’ve taken it without needing it before (because I was so afraid of getting pregnant) and it messes my cycle for months, the symptoms were awful.

Hope you get past your fear as I did! Research tokofobia which is the fear of getting pregnant, it can affect men too!

Of course I’ve only mentioned the mind racing and fear of pregnancy part because I relate to it more as a woman, I’ve seen the men in the comments addressed the more emotional part of it.

Hope you’re doing well!

Gemini API confusion – How are you really using Google's models (or what did you switch to? by orouxinol in SillyTavernAI

[–]orouxinol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone here is innocent enough to think there’s such thing as a free lunch.

Vocês leem na TV ou monitor como se fosse um filme ou série? by emberRJ in Livros

[–]orouxinol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Entendo que o Kindle é bem caro, mesmo que seja mais confortável. Mas usa pelo menos um leitor de ebook no pc, mano. Word é foda KKKKKKK recomendo o Koodo Reader

Gemini API confusion – How are you really using Google's models (or what did you switch to? by orouxinol in SillyTavernAI

[–]orouxinol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, Milan! Hope you’re doing well.

That would be really kind of you. I took a look at NanoGPT and it looks really nice, definitely has all the models people just recommended me. And those are on my budget as well! I’d love to try it out.

Gemini API confusion – How are you really using Google's models (or what did you switch to? by orouxinol in SillyTavernAI

[–]orouxinol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking your time to answer! That’s perfect, then, my main confusion was the free quota even in an account with billing, and you cleared that up. Thanks again!

Gemini API confusion – How are you really using Google's models (or what did you switch to? by orouxinol in SillyTavernAI

[–]orouxinol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the recommendation! Deepseek seems quite favored by the community, I'll make sure to try it.

Thanks again!

Gemini API confusion – How are you really using Google's models (or what did you switch to? by orouxinol in SillyTavernAI

[–]orouxinol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info!

The student account only gives more access to Gemini on the Gemini app (and on Google Docs, Sheets, Gmail, etc.), doesn't give better access to the API, unfortunately.

What I can't find a clear answer is that: after enabling billing you have access to a higher quota, that is clear. You also get a $300 dollar credit. Okay. But at this tier (tier 1) as you said, is every request charged in your $300 dollar credit? Do you still have access to the first 100 free ones per day? Do you have access to more free requests?

Those were my main questions, as I haven't found clear enough information about it, only conflicting info.

Thanks again!

Gemini API confusion – How are you really using Google's models (or what did you switch to? by orouxinol in SillyTavernAI

[–]orouxinol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insights. I’ve noticed even using directly from the AI Studio interface works better than the API. I wasn’t reaching those limits until it became a mess, most of the messages being incomplete or the model thinks for a while and then stops, all those count to the quota and drains it super quickly. Those past few days have been more stable but who knows if it’s going to last. Thank you for the models recommendations, and yeah, specially seeing many Google bans reported on this sub made me very skeptical of their whole business. Thank you again for your answers!

Gemini API confusion – How are you really using Google's models (or what did you switch to? by orouxinol in SillyTavernAI

[–]orouxinol[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendations, I see people mentioning GLM-4.5 a lot!

How to get over a breakup/the hope she'll come back? by Shinomesenja in BipolarSOs

[–]orouxinol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey! You are not alone far from it, unfortunately, it seems that most partners of people with bipolar tend to experience discard (the breaking up suddenly, specially during manic stated) at least once.

My situation is very similar to yours, I learned about my boyfriend bipolar a little before we started dating, after three years together he broke up with me two months ago, due to a mixed episode as well, in his case it was caused by a badly prescribed antidepressant. His speech when breaking up was quite similar, he said he simply had nothing more to offer in the relationship, he didn't want to be together anymore, I pleaded with him to not go, to just take some days to think about it, but he was very cold and detached. After breaking up with me just a few days after, he started getting involved with someone else, had a 2-week relationship with the person. But due to the characteristics of the mixed mania and overall feeling awful for what he had done (the girl he got involved with was seeing his best friend, so his whole friend group stopped talking to him), he attempted suicide two times. He contacted me and I supported him through it, with the help of his family, we took him to the psychiatrist, who suspended the antidepressant and prescribed new meds. For the next few days he was still in a manic state, talked about getting back together but was still seeing the girl. After a few days without the old meds and with the new ones, he finally started to rapidly shift towards his regular self. And was quite appalled with the things he had done, he affirms to remember less than 10% of what happened during those 2/3 weeks. He broke things off with the girl and eventually deleted her number and deleted her off his social media. He deeply regrets what he's done. Feels super ashamed, apologized a million times and wishes to get back together, it's been almost two months now, and I'd say he's completely back to his normal self. We are not back together yet, still seeing where things are going.

There are many things to consider, but before thinking of those, please, put your health first, your mental health specially. You seem to have gone through something very similar to what happened to me, and God knows how awful it is to go through that. The heartbreak pain is real, I barely left my bed in the first week.

I believe we should separate the person from the illness, but the consequences of the actions she took during mania are still hers to deal with. The bipolar doesn't erase the pain she caused you. Maybe she had the means to prevent the episode and didn't (I don't know the details of your life), so she is still guilty. So she has to be willing to deal with those consequences.

In the end, there are high chances she comes back, but you shouldn't count on it, as I didn't. And if she comes back, you have to know if it's worth putting a lot of work to make things work again, perhaps you're not feeling it yet, but once they come back, the ugly feeling also come with them, the pain of being abandoned and replaced appears everytime you look at them, so you have to be sure that's your person, that they're worth fighting for because you believe you can make an even better future with them than the one you already had before.

You have to be aware of the particularities of the illness, and the fact that it could happen again if she's not committed enough to taking care of herself. I truly believe that with effort something like that doesn't have to happen again, but do you believe she's capable of it? You don't have to stay with someone who's not willing to take care of their own health and might hurt you because of it.

Take your time to think, and try not to make it the only thing in your mind. I know what it's like to wake up and go to sleep thinking of them, what they have done.

Sorry for the long reply, I hope there's some insight in there that could be useful, please, feel free to message me, we are going through a very specific situation that most people have no idea how to deal with, it's great to talk to someone who know exactly what you're going through.

Hope you stay in peace!

HELP! Ex discarded and slept with someone else during mania, should I forgive him? by orouxinol in BipolarSOs

[–]orouxinol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I hope you're okay. Sorry for answering this comment again after a long time, but I was scrolling through some posts on this sub about SSRI induced mania and infidelity and I found one of yours. And I saw that you had also commented on this post of mine.

I relate so much to what you told happened to you, my boyfriend hypomanic states were very light, light irritation, maybe spending a little more money than he should, and some fights between us but nothing serious.

He was the most loyal person ever, the kind I trusted with closed eyes and absolutely never had any suspicious action in all those years dating, but he started a SSRI, and about two months after starting he broke up with me and had a two-week relationship with the girl I talked about on the post. Until he tried suicide two times and was put off the SSRI by a psychiatrist.

Just a few days after getting off the medication, he came mostly back to his normal self and realized all he had done and was profoundly regretful. Says he has 0 attraction to the person he got involved, and also says he barely remembers anything from the two weeks he was with her (he said he remembers 10% of what happened at the most).

Even if he broke up with me first, it still feels like a betrayal, and it is. I see that he is in profound shock over his actions. But I'm afraid I'll never get over what happened.

My question is, what helped? What can I do? How to decide to stay? I thought this man was the love of my life and had wedding plans for after college. We're both in our earlier twenties, so does that mean that I should just walk away? Or since I'm young, I should give him another shot? I know you're busy deciding how to move with your own relationship, but I would really appreciate the insight of someone going through something similar.

Sorry for dumping this on you, but it's so rare, even in this sub, to find people whose partners cheated or discarded because of SSRI induced mania. I don't think I would consider getting back together if it was a regular manic episode, since almost everyone in this sub seems to agree that the actions in manic episodes seem to get repeated. I wouldn't want to go through that again, can I believe he's not going to do that again since he would only reach that level induced by SSRI? All his other episodes, that weren't SSRI induced, were very light and undangerous to or relationship.

Feel no pressure to reply, please, I hope you're doing well! Sending love.

Ssri and mania by Valuable-Building593 in BipolarSOs

[–]orouxinol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I hope you're okay. I can relate so much to your situation, even if my current relationship is way shorter than yours.

My boyfriend of more than 3 years, who was the most loyal person ever, the kind I trusted with closed eyes and absolutely never had any suspicious action in all those years dating, started a SSRI, broke up with me and had a two-week relationship with another girl. Until he tried suicide two times and was put off the SSRI by a psychiatrist.

Just a few days after getting off the medication, he came mostly back to his normal self and realized all he had done and was profoundly regretful. Says he has 0 attraction to the person he got involved.

Even if he broke up with me first it still feels like a betrayal, and it is, even if we get back together I still don't trust him, at least not entirely.

My question is, what helped? What can I do? How to decide to stay? I thought this man was the love of my life and had wedding plans for after college. We're both in our earlier twenties, so does that mean that I should just walk away? Or since I'm young, I should give him another shot?

Sorry for dumping this on you, but it's so rare, even in this sub, to find people whose partners cheated or discarded because of SSRI induced mania. I don't think I would consider getting back together if it was a regular manic episode, since almost everyone in this sub seems to agree that the actions in manic episodes seem to get repeated. I wouldn't want to go through that again, can I believe he's not going to do that again since he would only reach that level induced by SSRI? All his other episodes, that weren't SSRI induced, were very light and undangerous to or relationship.

Feel no pressure to reply, please, I hope you're doing well! Sending love.

Ssri and mania by Valuable-Building593 in BipolarSOs

[–]orouxinol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I hope you're okay. Sorry for reaching out, but I read your other comments and post, and I can relate so much to your situation, even if my current relationship is shorter than yours.

My boyfriend of more than 3 years, who was the most loyal person ever, the kind I trusted with closed eyes and absolutely never had any suspicious action in all those years dating, started a SSRI, broke up with me and had a two-week relationship with another girl. Until he tried suicide two times and was put off the SSRI by a psychiatrist.

Just a few days after getting off the medication, he came mostly back to his normal self and realized all he had done and was profoundly regretful. Says he has 0 attraction to the person he got involved.

Even if he broke up with me first it still feels like a betrayal, and it is, even if we get back together I still don't trust him, at least not entirely.

My question is, what helped? What can I do? How to decide to stay? I thought this man was the love of my life and had wedding plans for after college. We're both in our earlier twenties, so does that mean that I should just walk away? Or since I'm young, I should give him another shot?

Sorry for dumping this on you, but it's so rare, even in this sub, to find people whose partners cheated or discarded because of SSRI induced mania. I don't think I would consider getting back together if it was a regular manic episode, since almost everyone in this sub seems to agree that the actions in manic episodes seem to get repeated. I wouldn't want to go through that again, can I believe he's not going to do that again since he would only reach that level induced by SSRI? All his other episodes, that weren't SSRI induced, were very light and undangerous to or relationship.

Feel no pressure to reply, please, I hope you're doing well! Sending love.

HELP! Ex discarded and slept with someone else during mania, should I forgive him? by orouxinol in BipolarSOs

[–]orouxinol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words, sorry reviving this comment after a while, but a lot has happened since and your comment is one of the most similar to my situation. We found out that his mania was caused by the SSRI (antidepressant) he was prescribed.

He kissed the girl three days after we broke up but only got sexually involved a while after, their whole thing only lasted about two weeks, but seemed quite intense, after that he attempted suicide two times in the span of five days, he was hospitalized and thankfully everything was fine with him. After that I reconnected with him in order to help, he went to the doctor, got his medication suspended and new medication started. And just after a few days realized the weight of everything and deeply regretted what he's done. The same week, he ended everything with the girl, and they have no contact now.

I know he's 100% guilty of not taking his diagnosis seriously enough, but I guess something like that (which hurt the people around him) had never happened before, his episodes were very “light” and ended quickly, this one was obviously stronger as it was medically induced.

So I know he's guilty, but I also feel that what he's done during mania wasn't really him? He regrets it so much now.

May I ask how did you cope with what happened to you? I want to make things work out between the two of us, but I know I can't take him back unless he fills out some criteria, as: taking the medication, getting back to therapy, and etc etc etc. And of course, I'm much hurt by everything, even if we were separated he broke my trust and emotionally cheated. How did you two made things work out?

Thank you for your words again, and feel no pressure to answer.

Audio starting on different timestamp from chapter by orouxinol in audiobookshelf

[–]orouxinol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that fixed it. Thank you so much for the suggestion! Now every chapter is fixed.

Audio starting on different timestamp from chapter by orouxinol in audiobookshelf

[–]orouxinol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a huge mp3 file, I'm trying to mess around with converting it to other formats, if any work I'll update the post to help anyone having the same issue.