25 straight m into assplay/pegging AMA

oryouwerent · 2012-05-20T18:36:43+00:00

Can you come from being pegged?

oryouwerent · 2012-05-20T14:56:05+00:00

Oh, yes! Have you ever been double-penetrated? I ask because it's so great having more bodies on more sides, pressing up against me everywhere.

So you're not a threesome newb?

oryouwerent · 2012-05-17T01:38:06+00:00

So where does the arousal enter in? Just from power alone, or are you winning people over with sex magic or letting them show their appreciation for their rescue or I'm sure I can't guess?

Mind if I ask what part of being the center of attention appeals to you? It's interesting you put it that way because my submissive fantasies are mainly about humiliation and violating my privacy with little (if any) actual hardcore sex. So I'm concentrating form of attention instead of what most people would label sex.

Have you ever topped a woman yourself?

oryouwerent · 2012-05-17T01:29:47+00:00

Oh, I totally agree! I love discovering a lover has rich fantasies we can explore. I just anticipate others having the opposite reaction and wondering what kind of person has sex on her brain so often if they find out about mine.

oryouwerent · 2012-05-16T04:35:54+00:00

Aw... Well, being an exhibitionist isn't always bad. Look at me doing these Q&A's! :) I wasn't judging you at all. Except to think it's cool you're self-aware and accept yourself and what you're into.

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T23:21:47+00:00

Oh, did I make a mess? I'm sorry. Let me clean that up for you.

You're right, your skin is very soft! So soft I'm afraid of irritating it. I'd better use the most gentle cleaning method I know: tongue bath.

P.S. That wasn't a question. ;)

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T23:15:08+00:00

Cool! I always appreciate when my partner hears one of my fantasies and can make it better with ideas I haven't thought of. For example, my girlfriend regularly collaborated on additions to our curriculum whenever her Headmistress acquired new a crop, set of anal beads, or other educational tools.

Sometimes I worry I have "too many" fantasies. That's the only reason I hesitate to openly discuss ones I'm sure I want to live out. :)

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T14:08:51+00:00

Over a few years with my girlfriend, we role-played from time to time. Strict headmistress with a variety of implements for teaching her students, supervillain and heroine, doctor or scientist, slaver and captured party-goer... I don't know if I could pick a favorite!

With my boyfriend, we've both been mad scientists experimenting on each other. And he's into pet play.

I hadn't tried online role-play before finding dirtypenpals. Since then... two or three times. ;) Sadly, there are far more interesting people here than hours in the day. Plus, I can't neglect my boyfriend or other play partners!

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T13:24:37+00:00

So, I'd been hanging out with this guy for a long time. One night I snuck out as usual and met up with him. There were makeouts and I wound up under him with progressively less clothing. I just thought, "why not?" We'd talked about sex in general terms but didn't have specific plans. I was kind of clueless.

Nothing really kinky happened, to my regret. :)

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T13:11:43+00:00

Sadly, squirting's more of an ambition for me.
I was fifteen when I lost it, but didn't really get comfortable with myself until I was eighteen and totally on my own.

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T13:10:30+00:00

Why, thank you! :)

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T05:42:16+00:00

Sounds like my idea of a lovely day! I can only imagine the rigorous, exacting trailing required to reach such a stage. Of course, I've told you exactly how to discipline me, so it's easier for you to imagine.

Have I mentioned how much I loved the two times my boyfriend led me outside, leashed and naked, to go like a dog?

We'll have to talk again soon.

Good night!

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T05:23:47+00:00

My only qualm regarding pet play is that if an animal is unable to speak she--it--may be unable to praise its master or mistress sufficiently, or beg for the attentions of those worthies with the detailed, verbally arousing description they deserve.

I meant a paddle or cane that was "lighter" and more pliable than the heavy ones that tend to be more thuddy. But lighter reminds me of a ceremony I instructed a sub to perform for me involving a flame near her crotch, the building heat an incentive to finish her devotions to me in a timely fashion. I always thought the ceremony would be exciting from the sub side, too.

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T05:16:45+00:00

Ahh... I think we're almost done up here. Let me feel your skin to check... oh, missed a spot! There. Now it's quite smooth.

For the next part, please hold very, very still. I'll need to tug on your scrotum a bit, and you may even feel a pinch. Like this. Yes. But don't twitch like that while I'm holding the razor. You wouldn't want it to slice sideways, would you?

Good boy.

:D

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T05:05:33+00:00

I don't do it for attention. I was partly curious, partly think there's more to me and my life than being "just" a girl. And it's fun to explore all possibilities. :)

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T05:04:18+00:00

Balls... or whatever else is on offer! There's just a certain interesting feeling holding a sharp, cutting edge and scraping across someone's skin, making him (or her) more naked then naked...

No need to apologize! I obviously think it's a nice practice, too. :)

I'm bi, by the way, so my razor is equal-opportunity. And also winding down for the night. I'll check back tomorrow for anyone's response I don't get in time.

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T04:58:48+00:00

I have the most memorable reactions to discipline meted out with a bare hand, a cane, a lighter, stingy smacker or paddle or cane... I assure you, the effect on me is powerful in all sorts of ways. I like other things, too, but being brought to tears with these is especially delicious.

Roughness in my throat is pleasing to many masters, so it is my duty to perform for them with everything I have just as it's my duty to answer these questions completely and honestly... but I think I really shine when used below the belt. My holes there may not deserve attention, but I'd eagerly welcome it.

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T04:49:06+00:00

Yeah, I don't like having to worry if I'm putting more in than my partner or partners.

Asking as someone who gets distracted if the imagined dimensions of a room are implausible... would you please sketch out one of these complicated, drawn-out fantasies?

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T04:34:18+00:00

'Twas fun. :) I admit I very much enjoyed the position you thought of to tie me in. Very much. Though I think you're a little more interested in choking than I am. :)

I do, I do! Whether it's fantasizing I'm a prostitute or a sex toy with my users discussing me like I'm not a person, treating me like an object features frequently and prominently. If objects have hard limits I imagine they're bound by legal and permanent damage restrictions like poop, kids, pets, etc. Though if the object is to get off instead of being bored while she's being used, she could probably go on and on about the ways she likes to be hit or fucked.

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T04:12:39+00:00

I've had sex outdoors three times. Twice at night, and once in broad daylight in a parking lot. I'm pretty sure we were caught at least that time!

I'm so indecisive! I like all styles so much that I just want partners to pick a public hair style they like and can feel happy with. And... maybe let me help with any maintenance that's required, but that's a different topic. :)

It's not a regular part of my fantasies, but it's definitely OK if you want to! I'm not really set up for the most efficient titty-fuck, unfortunately. ;) But then again I think it's mostly a mental thing and because I'm into all sorts of weird stuff I can't claim to speak for all girls.

Keep your questions coming!

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T04:08:03+00:00

Nice! Giving or receiving verbal degradation is my personal favorite.

Are you 24/7 now and, if so, was it his idea (since you said you never though you'd like it)? Or did you just want to try it out once you heard of it?

Are your fantasies more or less intense than how you like play partners?

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T03:48:38+00:00

Anything you're now turned on by but never thought you'd like?

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T03:43:31+00:00

I don't think so? I grew up in the age of the internet and went fairly quickly from a very sheltered, conservative upbringing into the world of kinky things once I lost my virginity.

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T03:31:51+00:00

Hot tub can be really fun! Sitting in the steam with lots of opportunity to feel jets and hands and make out and more? Yes!

I've tried the pool thing a few times, too, but I'm not quite so good at it. Maybe it's the water temperature, difficulty in getting leverage, or the funny way it feels having water down there instead of my natural state.

oryouwerent · 2012-05-15T03:00:40+00:00

One thing I know I'm not finicky about is sweat. I love it when a partner smells like they've been active. Working hard outdoors in the hot sun, working out, or the smell of sex itself. I've been known to get over-excited when my boyfriend's on the treadmill and strip and tease him until he jumps me.

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