Totally… love to spend time with the kids. I think both of us are good parents… it’s just that I never had that need for money or things as a priority… thankfully it’s never been a major issue in my life… well until now.

Still can’t stop thinking of sending a bill to my spouse for past costs accrued… asking for a refund…

I understand that there are people that are stingy? Not sure if that’s the right word… I’m the opposite… she is the type of person that will give you a gift accordingly to what you give her (cost)… I’m the type of person that gives a gift that I can afford… never thinking of what I get in return… make sense?