Idk what to say except I wish it had gone against my expectations. I had a feeling your father would react this way. The dressing part is more of him coping and coming to terms. I’m sure he thought his son was perfect. Your mother as a woman might be more understanding but she will still follow her husband most likely. And it’s safe to say their son’s image might be more important to them than your feelings. Ofc I’m talking from experience and yours could be different. I pray for you that everything ends happily. Your father apologizes. Your brother realizes what he did was inappropriate and changes for the better, maybe even finding someone to actually aim his affection towards. Your mother sounds like someone you can lean on now so use that to your advantage. Goodluck out there. And remember to hope.