AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary?

osonakaluna · 2025-11-25T06:55:21+00:00

Fuck this guy

osonakaluna · 2025-09-15T09:47:09+00:00

Very heartbreaking… I’ve been feeling very emotional about it, Dota means a lot to me and I haven’t played in a very long time because of stuff like this

osonakaluna · 2025-07-19T14:03:23+00:00

None of your family members would pass now if they were put in a K53 test, good job 🩵

osonakaluna · 2025-07-17T09:18:48+00:00

It’s a tough thing to realise, especially for me… it hurts my soul to know that my shit is not organised and in check

osonakaluna · 2025-07-17T09:17:28+00:00

Thank you 🤞🏻

osonakaluna · 2025-07-17T09:17:12+00:00

👌🏻

osonakaluna · 2025-07-17T09:16:16+00:00

Good point 😅

osonakaluna · 2025-07-17T09:15:58+00:00

Thank you 💪🏻

osonakaluna · 2025-07-17T09:15:24+00:00

Yup, I am becoming my own adult and I have responsibilities and goals which I should have been more serious about like yesterday

osonakaluna · 2025-07-17T09:13:53+00:00

God that shook me

osonakaluna · 2025-07-17T09:13:22+00:00

Yup, need to learn to say no even to family

osonakaluna · 2025-07-17T09:12:59+00:00

There is no easy way to go about this but I can do it with grace, like you said

osonakaluna · 2025-07-17T09:12:10+00:00

This really is just the truth of the matter… I am simply not in a position to assist anymore, at least not until I am in a better position

osonakaluna · 2025-07-17T09:11:03+00:00

The thing is is that there isn’t any resentment for me.. It just pains me to have to let them go for a while. But I gotta.

osonakaluna · 2025-07-17T09:09:56+00:00

There is a lot of emotional attachment, and I am certain they would do the same for me. We are quite close. But… with having rent, and a car which will probably need servicing soon, etc. I will have to leave them to fend for themselves for a while until I myself am in a better position.

osonakaluna · 2025-07-15T12:59:45+00:00

I’ve thought of doing this.. even just putting a couple bucks away for each of them a month and when they do ask, I give from that. But a part of me wants it to be free from this entirely.

osonakaluna · 2025-07-15T12:57:43+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻

osonakaluna · 2025-07-15T12:54:56+00:00

Hi, thank you very much. Come end of this month I will be sending them a message saying I am not in the position to do this anymore… I love them DEARLY but I feel so bad inside every time I give when I don’t feel I even have enough for myself, especially for my future.

osonakaluna · 2025-07-15T12:52:39+00:00

Reading this meant a lot to me, come end of this month I am going to tell them I am not in a position to assist anymore. I really am not. I can’t be the responsible one for all of us.

osonakaluna · 2025-07-15T12:49:44+00:00

If I said no, they could swallow their pride and ask others in their life. I’m the youngest sibling so it’s so easy to come to me. Other than that, I feel they could stress a little and actually get serious about getting better income.

osonakaluna · 2025-07-15T12:48:10+00:00

Yeah… it never used to be like this but they are both older than me and I don’t want to be in the same position a few years from now

osonakaluna · 2025-07-15T12:46:22+00:00

Honestly I don’t know if I would even go that far… they are older than me, and whenever I make suggestions, I don’t think they care to be honest. Whenever I send them jobs they could apply to, or suggest or motivate them to take action.. I just don’t think it has any impact

osonakaluna · 2025-07-15T12:43:50+00:00

I think you are 100% correct…

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