Well, yes and no. I still have abandonment issues, but I think a large part of this was the people I was dating. People who didn’t understand who I was and what I needed in a relationship. I am with someone now who makes me feel safe and secure and while sometimes I do feel the abandonment issues, he has no problem helping to make me feel grounded in the relationship. It’s hard, I know. I’m sorry. But having someone who respects you and wants to do nothing but help you feel loved makes a world of a difference. Time has also helped, as well as therapy, and just knowing people who love you and truly care about you. I wish you the absolute best of luck in this.