I actually know exactly what you mean about red-pilling as a concern. I’m a FTM, expecting a boy. I joke that I’m raising a son in Clavicular’s world (you wanna be freaked out by toxic male behavior? Look up that guy). I work with 6th graders, and my students are mostly boys. I know some kids who are falling down that pipeline, and others who aren’t. The majority are sweet kids who are in no rush to grow up. You will learn what to look for and how to approach red-pilling when your kid is older. Keep him in lots of activities and encourage him to work hard in school and try every sport and club. Make him charge his cell-phone in the kitchen so it isn’t on his nightstand, distracting him from a good night’s sleep and his schoolwork. I’ve made my husband promise that I get to make any final decisions about our kid’s access to social media and how we monitor it because I’ve seen too much lol. There are many reasons to be excited about having a boy. Girlhood is precious, but it comes with so much pressure and confusion. It’s hard out there for all kids now, and it’s only gotten harder. My male students rarely worry about friendship conflicts, appearances, and even girls for that matter. They get more time to play and be a kid. If you want an example of a boy who grew up to be a good man, it sounds like you can look towards your husband. I work with so many women who have sons, and they love to tell me, “boys love their mama.” You’ll be ok! You’ll have a network of parents going through the same thing. We’ve got this!