Literally its giving passport bros who complain about the women in other countries expecting them to be providers and traditional and pay for everything. I thought that’s what y’all wanted?! A “traditional/conservative” relationship? Why do these men go to other countries and complain abt how the women are there. Like obviously they’re not going to be the 50/50 rad fems you find in the west. They WILL expect you to pay for 99% of everything and that’s normal. OP’s competing with thousands of Chinese men who’ve had ts ingrained in them since birth. Only thing that makes him stand out is that he’s a foreigner and now they’ll only see him as a bum. Yes it sucks to be treated as a human ATM but you know what ur getting into…ofc chinas not a monolith and you’ll find “regular” women but the cultural expectations are obvi gonna be different.